All Questions

How would you feel if you saw your ex lost weight?

I'm meeting one of my exes for lunch, who hasn't seen me in a year. In the past year, I've worked out like crazy and watched what I ate. I was able to drop 30 lbs going from a size 10 to a size 4. Do you think he will...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

My boyfriend still hasn't kissed me :(

Hey everyone, well I guess I'll just get right into the details.. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 5 months! Weeoo! It's been great but he still hasn't kissed me :( I really want him to kiss me! And he...

Chawny

Xper 3 Age: 32

Society & Politics

What is modern femininity?

Defining two the genders at their optimum without going back to gender roles we have masculinity or "manliness" and femininity. "Manliness" has been well described throughout the ages. A man is supposed to be strong...

Malcom_Reynolds

Guru Age: 39

My boyfriend has five kids and two baby's mothers?

I knew he had this baggage when we got together and I was fine with it Because I want a fam but I personally am not ready to pop out kids just yet. So I was happy that he already had kids, that way I got a fam with out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Never had a girlfriend. Is that pathetic?

I'm 22 and NEVER had a girlfriend, and it's NOT because I didn't want one. I've never even had a date. I've put myself out there and made attempts and have never been wanted. The fact that has (and IS) taking me SO long...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when he slaps my butt and he has a girlfriend?

There's this guy Jake, who's my friend, he's friends with this guy I kinda like who's also my friend and that's how we met. We all talk and we kid around, but one day about three months ago he started slapping my butt I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend goes out every Friday night without me, normal?

I've been dating my guy for 3 months. things are good but once Friday nights come around he's always going out and drinking, and never wants me around. its hurtful. I'm 23 and so is he. he sees himself and just being...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend thinks I am just average. Is that normal?

I live with my boyfriend. He treats me very well and we have a great relationship. About a week ago we were having a normal discussion and he blurted out that he thought I was just average looking. He said it was okay...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating German men....?

How can you tell if a German guy is interested?! dating over here is so different, and these guys are pretty reserved and don't really flirt... so what am I supposed to do?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it wrong I like possessive guys...?

i tend to like the guys that give me reassurance by showing that they love me, or get jealous if they see another guy interested in me...stuff like that...is that wrong? the last relationship was with an abusive guy (he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend is unsupportive of my alopecia

As a young woman with alopecia, I struggle with a lot of distress. I went to the dermatologist and he said it's genetic, so the treatment "may or may not work", which is quite discouraging. I hate this. You know how young...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy says 'I'm bored entertain me'?

I was kinda offended when he asked me that. It has been a guy who I have been talking online through an online dating site. He says he is looking for a relationship. We talk on the phone now and asked if it was OK for him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a guy offers to you cook you a meal in his house, is that pretty much an invitation for sex?

Sorry, it sounds so harsh in the title but I had character limits lol I know if a guy invites you back up to his place after a date, that probably (not always) means he is thinking of sex and if you accept then it's like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does a one-night stand with an ex girlfriend hold any meaning?

I dated my girlfriend for 3 years. 7th – midway through 10th grade. I broke up with her twice (I initiated both). About a year and a half later she got a new boyfriend. They’ve been dating for about a year and a half. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fellas....Pretty face or banging body?

Would you be attracted to a very pretty girl with a messed up body or would you like a ugly face but banging body?

kitttykaaat69

Xper 5 Age: 48

Anytime my boyfriend does something nice, he feels like I owe him...

...Is there a nice way to tell him to stop doing things for me, because I don't want to feel obligated to him? Like, if we go out with his friends, that's considered "normal," but if we go out with my friends, he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it OK for my boyfriend to go on vacation for 3 weeks without me?

We've been dating for about 9 months and spend every day with each other. We've said "i love you" to each other and are always talking about our future together. He wants to go to Costa Rica for 3 weeks and knows that I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

Do girls and guys view a non-platonic friendship differently?

Recently spoke to some female friends about crushing on a friend you can't have, whather it be because they already have a partner or they do not feel the same. What would you do in this situation? My female friends all...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I told my ex to stop contacting me, but I still want her back, was that a good idea?

so my ex broke up with me because she is starting to fail at college, she also wanted to be friends I tried that but it was to hard, I told her I can't be friends or talk, so anyways she broke up with me feb 5th and four...

Timewilltell18

Xper 5 Age: 34

Girls, If a guy makes you mad, how long you stay mad?

And what can he do to be forgiven? Me and this girl got into an argument and I called her some names (not nasty ones, but offensive). I apologized and always try to be pleasant and stuff but she keeps telling me she won't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do guys like to hold girls hand so much?

The two guys I've been with always wanted to hold my hand, one of them always locked my fingers with his. Why do you like to do this guys?

sports-lover

Xper 5 Age: 31

What do girls do at sleepovers?

My girlfriend is going to have a sleepover with her friends. What do girls do at sleepovers. Do you guys have orgies, naked pillow fights, etc.?

Anonymous

(36-45)

She keeps appearing in my dreams. Could they be signs?

This girl I'm crushing on keeps appearing in my dreams. This has happened before with girls in the past I used to fancy. But they would just appear once or twice at the very most. But this girl keeps appearing. It's been...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Tips for living with a "macho" boyfriend?

I'm usually into guys who are fun, easy going, laid-back, etc. But mostly dominant guys are into me. I've got a boyfriend who has a lot of traits I like - intelligence, etc -- but who is way more macho and dominant...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does she say she likes me but won't date me?

This girl says she likes me but she doesn't want to date me because we don't get on...wtf? What does that even mean, of course we get on. Have any of your girls said that to a guy but it means something else. It may have...

MrFlirtatious1992

Xper 6 Age: 34

Best car color to impress girls?

What's the best color for a fancy car to have? What do girls prefer?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Fake eyelashes for a date - good idea or just leave them natural?

I have a first date lined up that I'm pretty excited about and was wondering if fake eyelashes actually freak guys out? I'm not planning on wearing the super fake ones that are so heavy the girl can't even blink but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend ran away, said he needs to become a man

4 days ago me and my boyfriend were the happiest we've ever been. We have been together for 4 years. He moved to Nashville for a year id go visit and stuff we were great. Well that was a year ago. He moved back home with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it true that messy hair reminds guys of sex?

do you guys like messy hair? link link do you guys like it?

cenicienta

Xper 3 Age: 36

Society & Politics

Guys, Boss offers to give me a ride home...now what?

So I work for a global company and have 2 people from the UK coming over for a project. My new boss asks me if we will entertain them one night for dinner & drinks. He then asks me how far I stay from the restaurant and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Is pulling up socks a signof attraction?

Guys, is pulling up socks REALLY a sign of attraction that show towards girls? I feel like its complete bs because I mean, what if your sock really does fall down? Or is that really a "sure-fire" way to tell someone you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When a guy says "It's fine"...

...does it actually mean it's fine or is it like when gals say it's fine when it often really isn't. In context, as some of you may have seen in the question I asked yesterday --> link I've confused and frustrated a...

coco489

Xper 6 Age: 36

How do you know if your ex girlfriend is disturbed by your presence ?

I don't know whether she hates me or is disturbed by my presence she is avoiding me like a plague most of the time I don't approach her and been ignoring her yet she avoids me like plague and then stares at me on random day

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Do you guys think Eminem is hot?

Hey Eminem is like totally awesome... but what do you think about his looks? Is he hot, do you think? Haaha. I just wanna knwo what people think.

natalia22

Xper 5 Age: 31

Why is my friend so conceited?

All she ever does is talk about how hot she is, talk about herself all the time, etc. etc. Whenever there is a conversation she ALWAYS brings it back to be about herself...she does this with other people! She's a pretty...

hunnybunny81105

Xper 5 Age: 37

Mustang or a Challenger. Are mustangs too common?

Yeah so I'm thinking about buying a new car in the summer. I'm thinking its going to be a mustang or a challenger. The problem is however, that I see way too many mustangs here in LA, theyre everywhere and even one of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I be concerned that my boyfriend sleeps way too much?

I may sound childish and selfish but I don't feel alright with this. My boyfriend sleeps from 12 am till 5 pm! .. stays till 7 pm and then hits the gym until 12 am , then he sleeps again. I can only talk to him an hour...

Anonymous

(36-45)