Hi there. I think that your concern is on the wrong thing. Of course he over reacted as there is NEVER a cause for what he did. The bigger questions are should you be with him an should you move into an apartment and live with someone like this. NO. You need to move on now as I will tell you that once he throws water in your face and you stay with him, regardless of any conversation you have to him that means that you've accepted this behavior. After that it will only get worse. What else does he need to do before you walk away? I guarantee that this experience is the turning point of your relationship, one way or another. If you stay you will look back in and wonder how it got to the point that I will and you can think about his moment when you did not show him that his disrespect is not tolerated. I truly wish you the best and hope you keep yourself out of a bad situation.
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He threw something at your face , water or not, he has no right to get angry and try to hit you, even if it's water.
What an idiot...
I would be so angry if I was you and would dump him for throwing something at and on me for no reason, he screwed up, over reacted and is...mean too..why keep fusing at you?
You shouldn't be his thing to vent on.
He doesn't respect you, and has anger/aggression/confrontation issues. Every girl deserves someone who respects them...If he didn't mean what he said, seriously consider whether he's worth working this out with him. If he meant it, or he doesn't work it out, find someone who does appreciate and respect you. You're right: you don't deserve to be treated like that.
Yes, he is almost certainly insecure about moving in with you and used that as an excuse to vent his frustration. That was uncalled for but men tend to get comfortable with the way things are and change is hard to accept. He's having serious second thoughts about the relationship in my opinion. Still, no excuse for that crap
He is terrified of moving in with you so he wants to make up something that is your fault to stop it. Happens all the times. Some dudes just suck, and he is one of them. Tell him to take his over reacting douchy ass somewhere else cause you ain't buyin.
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If he gets this mad over this unimportant crap then what's he going to do when there is a real issue going on. He has problems so I'd rethink what you're doing with him. This is a big red flag.
that is disrespectful girl. I don't know how you do it but I couldn't be with a guy who does not respect me.
I'm pretty sure I'm not getting all the information here. You probably have a history of not paying attention.
what is he? 10?... find someone whose grown up.. what a d***head.
Yes! He was being emotionally abusive to you. What a jerk! You really need to dump his ass.
go to a professional fast... with or without him... holy sh*t!
Leave him, that's a stupid stupid thing for him to do.
He's an a**hole.he may be way immature, but I suspect there is a LOT missing from this story, men don't just throw water without being provoked.
You need to get out of there, and fast! Seriously, it sounds like a bad situation!
LOL this is too funny I, only thought people threw, water in others peoples face in movies.
you're dating a psycho? what's wrong with you? dump him girl!
seriously break up with him, he is nothing but bad it will only get worse
He was over reacting, and acting very childish. What a stupid thing to do.
Yeah, you should dump him.
Just break up with him now, he is no good
should have listened the first time.
Yes.
get the f*** out now
wth he's a jerk
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