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Humor COMBINED with arrogance?

I'm trying to develop the "attractiveness" that women desire, I'd like some assistance in understanding an intriguing discovery. This is under the flirting category because I will only be speaking of the initial approach...

Charming

Xper 5 Age: 40

Reoccuring dream: Driving from the backseat of a car?

So every now and then I have this dream where I'm driving from the back seat of a car. Nothing in the dream really stands out or happens when I'm driving it. Last night, the dream was a little different. I had gotten in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is it a turn off that I've never dated before?

I'm a 20-year-old guy at college that has absolutely no sexual experience whatsoever. Is this a turn off for girls my age?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Romantic guy becoming bitter from chronic unrequited love. Should I just give up?

My whole life, I've been rejected by the girls I've liked. I have so much to give, but nobody wants it. I'm a romantic, I like flowers and candle-lit dinners and romantic comedy movies. I like making things like art and...

jack49north

Xper 5 Age: 40

Too much of a gentleman to cross any boundaries/make a move?

The guy I like is really sweet and also pretty shy. He's very much a gentleman when we go out (opening doors, paying for everything, letting me wear his gloves) but at the same time he doesn't make any real moves. I was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He's sending me mixed signals. What should I do ?

Okay so I met this guy who had just got out of a relationship about a month ago. We had quite a bit of chemistry from day 1 and seemed to really be attracted to one another. We have been talking/ hanging out for about 3...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Apparently I'm boring and not fun?

The thing is... I AM super fun to be around and when we go out I'm usually the life of the party. I like laughing and smiling. And I tend to talk about random things (if I'm in a good mood ;p). People describe me as...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

How much should I spend on my boyfriend's birthday present?

we've been dating for 2 months, so I wanted to know what the ideal about would be to spend on his birthday present thanks!

brunettebaby

Xper 5 Age: 34

Valentine's Day

My girlfriend doesn't like Valentine's Day?

I've been in a long distance relationship for about 6 months and I'm heading back home to see family and my girlfriend during the week of valentines day. Anyway, my girlfriend recently told me not to plan anything for...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What kind of girls do hood guys like?

do guys from the hood like girly girls? I like this guy...hes a dope boy, in a gang that type of stuff... me, I'm a college girl, I grew up in the church but I don't go any more, I'm quiet and stuff hes not the usual...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Valentine's Day

Haven't heard from him in two weeks, should I call or text to say something?

So I met this guy casually at a store, he asked for my number, I gave it to him, and we hit it off right away. For the next like 4 days after that we texted and called each other and talked for hours. Pretty much gave...

HoosierGrl86

Xper 5 Age: 39

How do you reassure your boyfriend you won't cheat on him?

My boyfriend has been hurt before by his ex-girlfriends who cheated on him and I feel like he is keeping his distance so he won't get hurt by me to? Kind of like he is anticipating me cheating on him and hurting him like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do girls always pull back when the guy is interested?

girls do this to me all the time , I meet them and become interested in them , than they pull back and like yeah aren't that interested anymore or just nervous that I was interested in them in the first place . i don't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Why did he change his mind?

I've been exclusively dating a guy for 3+ months. He initially wanted to get serious right away (as in make things official: girlfriend/boyfriend etc). I said I wanted to take things slower and he said that was ok. Lately...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when he touches you on the shoulder?

So this guy who is an acquaintance (we're fb friends but don't really hang out and haven't spoken to each other much) recently came up to me while I was sitting in class and grabbed my shoulder (gently) and said 'it's...

blackbird

Xper 3 Age: 36

I still love my ex. 6 years on- and no one compares!!!

I want my ex back. He has a girlfriend. Not a perfect relationship. But he seems committed to her. I was his first true love and he was mine. Before his new girlfriend we would still meet once a year (we live in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My girlfriend told her ex that she loves him, what should I do?

Me and my girl have been dating for almost a year, we have both expressed deep feelings for each other. We have both said that we love each other, and we want to get married But over the last few days, things have...

EG109

Xper 5 Age: 39

How do I play him at his own game?

I'm having an on off relationship with a guy I like a hell of a lot. We were going out during the summer but now its just an on again off again type of thing. Its a complicated situation to say the least so to cut long...

IheartTay

Xper 5 Age: 33

Okay to hit a girl?

Do you think it is ever okay for a guy to hit a girl? If so, when is it okay? I am asking this because a crazy girl kicked my friend in the nuts and when I heard about that I got a strong urge to hurt that girl really bad.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Body like an hourglass?

if a guy says "you've got a body like an hourglass" does he mean it as a compliment or is he saying "you need to lose weight" in a polite way? (btw I don't know what type of girl he's into)

shes-a-lady

Xper 4 Age: 36

Dating

Whatever happened to "Ladies First"?

How come it seems that men no longer show the common courtesies to women that we used to? How often do men open car doors for women anymore, or run their bath water for them, or pull their chair out and allow the woman to...

sirlixalot

Xper 3 Age: 49

Asking female friends to introduce you to girls? Is this a good idea?

I never entertained the idea of asking any female friends to introduce me to girls because I felt that that took my private life a little too public from the get go and it makes me look desperate. But now, I'm thinking...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend says I'm pushing him away?

I've been with my boyfriend going on three years and he cheated...to my standards. I saw a video of two his friends having a threesome with a girl as he record it,then this girl text him asking for him to come have sex...

Anonymous

(36-45)

A girl that I like called me a nut. what does that mean?

so the girl that I like called me a nut. I don't think that she knows that I like her. I was just siting there in one of our classes talking to her I don't remember about what but nothing that she could call me a nut for....

lmottp

Xper 5 Age: 33

Is it true that girls like being texted first?

Is it true that girls like being texted first? ... They wait for guys to text them first? All my friends have been saying this but doesn't that seem a little too clingy for guys? i don't know I'd like to hear both...

shyguy81

Xper 6 Age: 35

Why would a girl distance herself from a guy?

lets put up this scenario: A girl and and guy are good friends, but (I think) the girl realizes that the guy likes her a lot and she starts to distance herself from him, not totally, but enough for the guy to know. is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys talk to girls they're not interested in?

I realized when hanging out with my best guy friend that I don't know how to act around him because he have history and because I don't have many males friends at all, and none that are close. I do believe that men and...

amber505

Xper 5 Age: 35

Girl's Behavior

Would you say that a girl's gut reaction about a guy liking her is normally pretty accurate?

I've read studies about how women are generally almost twice as more tuned in to body language than men. Men of course can pick up on things and have "gut reactions", but it seems like women are frequently more accurate...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Anonymous questions and anonymous answers?

Many persons on this website, ask and answer questions anonymously...and I often wonder why ? As near as I can tell, your question and /or answer is virtually "anonymous" anyway just by the way this site is configured,...

Bruce

Xper 7 Age: 46

My boyfriend came back twice, will he come back a third time?

He broke up with me two times before and each time, I never contacted him after the break up. Each time, he also ended up coming back and apologizing. Is the possibility of him coming back the third time high or low?

Anonymous

(36-45)

He caught me checking him out one time, now he constantly glances at me?

Good or bad sign?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why did he just stop talking to me?---I don't understand.

Been dating this guy for about a month...things were going great. The last day he was here, but talked so much almost to the point where a relationship was going to possibly be picking up. He said he wanted to come back...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)