All Questions

My boyfriend is attracted to black girls and I'm a white girl.

He watches black girl porn all the time behind my back and it makes me self conscious because I'm not black in anyway. Sure I may be over reacting in some ways but he still continues to do it even when I've asked him not...

little_lost_girl_86

Xper 5 Age: 39

Is a canopy bed masculine or feminine?

I was getting a new bed for the Holidays and I kind of dig the canopy look. Is that cool or is a canopy bed for girls? And how about color what color looks good for the frame for a guy? Is white considered neutral or...

kriskiss

Explorer Age: 39

Is making a girl laugh a good thing?

I'm a comedy writer, so I guess I'm a decently funny guy. I make girls laugh, but I have trouble ever seriously connecting with a girl. I'm convinced that girls aren't interested in "funny" guys, but convince themselves...

Anonymous

(36-45)

A girl told me that her friend thinks I'm cute. Should I be happy?

i was walking on a street in Chicago.. and I passed by a group of girls (16-18). suddenly they started gossiping and staring at me, and one girl jumped out and told me that one of her friends thinks I'm cute.. ( its the...

mf-ibmj

Xper 7 Age: 35

He keeps saying that he can't stop thinking about me.

So I'm dating thus guy and he keeps saying that he can't stop thinking about me. I know I should just take it as face value, but does it just mean he really likes me a lot? Could it mean he may be falling in love? If you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What's the best way to ask a white girl out for a date? I'm a nervous wreck. LOL!

I'm a black male that wants to date outside my race.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Do women get sweaty feet?

It's gross, I know, but this girl took her sandals off and I couldn't breath... I told her that her feet were sweaty and stinky, but she got offended and told me "women don't get sweaty feet." Either she is in denial or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Confused about my FWB, does he want more but can't admit it?

I'm single and my best friend is single. We started a FWB thing last year, but we set some ground rules. For example, if either of us started seeing someone and it was getting serious, this casual sex thing would stop...

jellybeany

Xper 5 Age: 44

What does "I am falling for you" mean, anyways?

My boyfriend has been saying "I'm really falling for you" quite often lately, and I know that's a good thing, but at the same time, I really don't know what it's supposed to mean. Does it just mean he likes me a lot, is...

Miss_Desirae

Xper 5 Age: 35

Was I right in telling my girlfriend she can't hang out with guy friends 1 on 1?

Before I start you should know that my girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and see each other bi weekly. For a period of 3-4 days. Alright, so a of couple nights ago my 3 month old girl friend told me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When a girl says she has to check her schedule?

When you ask a girl to hang out (named a specific place and day) and she says she has to check her schedule, is she flaking?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

What do girls think of men wearing suits in terms of attraction?

Do you find it attractive? Does it make you want to talk to them a little more? Maybe even turns you on? Or does it repel you?

Nacelunk

Xper 6 Age: 35

Girl's Behavior

When a girls says "I'll let you know" what does it mean?

If you ask a girl to go do something with you, like going to a sports game or bowling or whatever, and she says "I'll let you know" is she just letting you down gently? I told this girl to let me know in two days and she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a girl holds her gaze, is that a good thing?

There's a girl I like & I'm trying to figure her out. When I look at her she will always match my stare usually until I look away after a few secs. Could that be a sign of interest or is she looking because I am?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

How deal with the situation with this studious girl?

I'm very attracted to this girl I know, mostly because of her personality, but also because she's pretty good-looking. Others I know have described her as cute, but not beautiful, and that seems studious (since she...

larryburns

Xper 5 Age: 38

Do guys like girls with a medium build?

do they prefer skinny girls over girls who are athletic and/or have a medium build? For example, I'm 15 and about 140 lbs, have an hourglass shape, and most of my weight is muscle because I'm a soccer player and have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I tell my girlfriend to shave her mustache and arms?

I like her but it doesn't turn me on when I see her hair like that. She shaves her legs tho.

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean if some guy keeps bragging about himself in front of you all the time ?

Here is a tid bit I'd like to know.. What if guys you talk to just throw information you never asked for about themselves ? Especially like how rich they are .. Why do it ? I never asked it in the first place.. Is it just...

tweettweety

Xper 5 Age: 41

Dating

Is a kiss on the cheek friendly or flirty?

Just wondering.

Anonymous

(30-35)

I wish I could read his mind just for 1min! Help please

He gets squeamish when I get even slightly emotional, trusting or complimentary towards him, wtf? Examples of what I mean: Emotional: He'll tell me he's having a bad day or that he's nervous, I'll ask why, he'll ignore...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

How to keep my hair straight overnight?

I have curly hair so I straighten it the night before school to save time in the morning, but when I sleep on it it starts to curl again and I end up having to re-straighten the whole thing instead of just touching up in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

He called me disgusting.

this guy and I have had a thing for a while. the other day my friend told me that he called me disgusting. I am in no way unattractive, this guy has always gone gaga over "how hot I am". why would he say that? one time I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Pal? Dude? Buddy?

OK boys this is a serious pet peeve of mine: when I start getting to know a guy and then start liking him and he calls me pal/dude/buddy. It just makes it seem like he seems me as 'one of the guys' or 'just a friend' and...

coco489

Xper 6 Age: 36

Family & Friends

Do guys care what their guy friends think about the girl they like?

Just curious

Meshia16

Xper 5 Age: 32

Do girls not "like" the good guys because they would be too afraid of losing them?

Just wondering... Girls always tell me that I'm a great guy, very sweet, and not to ever change or turn bad... I'm 19 years old, still very young. So I think a serious relationship, like for real, is out of the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy calls you "B"?

So short version- I've been seeing this guy since about May, Were dating seeing each other once or twice a week., but we never really had the whole talk bout that whole status title thing. WE start sleeping together in...

ricebunny86

Xper 5 Age: 38

Girls, what does the word hero mean to you?

OK, so there is this girl I really like and she told me that "I'm her hero?" because I honestly do a lot of awesome things for her. She has a boyfriend. What does it mean?

rawrgrr123

Xper 4 Age: 36

Why do women like holding hands so much?

Not that guys have anything against this at all, but why do women seem to value this more than dudes in general, hand holding what's the significance? Do women really love this?

kriskiss

Explorer Age: 39

"Touch base?"

My guy friend said "I'll touch base with you later." last night when hanging up the phone with me. The phrase I get, but I don't get it coming from him because I've known him for 7 years and I've never once heard that out...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean if she dreams about me?

^^ She tells me she first of all dreamed that she kissed me then a couple of weeks later she dreamed she had sex with me! I really like this girl but we are just good friends but I think she might like me to, does this...

Anonymous

(36-45)