All Questions

What does it mean when you ask a guy to hangout and he says sure?

Last weekend I met this guy at a party and we hit it off really well, just casual talk some dancing and then we exchanged numbers, and eventually kissed. That's as far as it went. I waited a couple of days later and...

Pt5050

Xper 5 Age: 37

Urgh, what's up with unconfident guys?

there's this guy, who I thought was pretty cute. he didn't talk much and was kinda awkward, so I put in a lot of effort trying to get him to talk. when he finally did open up, he. is. CRAZY. well I just mean that he's all...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you mean by 'Bros before Hos'?

Guys, when you use this expression, do you mean 'hos' as in all females, or do you really mean the sluts, and bitches? I kinda take offense to this, so I was just wondering.

anonymousgirl4

Xper 3 Age: 32

Is there a good way to get revenge on a player?

Question is up here^.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Is asking too many questions a turn off?

Girls: A guy asking questions, even ones like "how was your ___" is a turn off? Is asking too many questions a turn off. I don't mean an excessive number but even one a day seams like a turn off?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why doesn't my girlfriend ever invite me out with her friends?

We've been dating a year, and she now rarely invites me to join when she goes out to the bar or has people over. When we do go out, she seems indifferent to my presence, despite my efforts to have a good time and involve...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Boyfriend coddles me too much and suffocates me. What do I do?

OK, so I have been going out with my new boyfriend for a while. About 2 months. Most of it was distance in the beginning though and we got to talk a lot, and I love his personality. But, he coddles me too much and is like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, if a cute guy is sitting behind you in a classroom?

would you do anything out of the ordinary (like playing with your hair or something idk). What if he sat beside you?

ImSoSozzled

Guru Age: 34

Buff/Muscular guy having trouble talking to girls?

Okay, if a girl see a tall guy who's buff and he take care of himself but he's very shy, is it a turn off or something? because most of the time they look very masculine and intimidating, so they don't really look shy. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Who do you think has it worse? attractive women or attractive men?

Now I know what you are thinking: What could possibly be bad about being hot? Ill tell you. For the primary reason of displaying qualities to a woman who he has to approach and get to know. Mainly because 90% of women...

superdudeman

Explorer Age: 48

Why do guys touch a girl's chin?

Why do guys touch and/or caress a girl's chin? What's the purpose of doing this?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do I dress inappropriately for a 16 year old girl?

my parents are always giving me sh*t saying I dress inappropriately but I think I dress normal for a girl my age. Do I dress inappropriately for a 16 year old girl?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it OK for my boyfriend to give his number to random girls?

I've been with him for 9 months. He told me he wanted us to be serious. Throughout the relationship I noticed he's been liking girls photos and commenting on them. So when I started doing it too he got upset at me...I...

SoulGirl

Explorer Age: 32

Would you prefer your boyfriend to be playful and fun or mature and serious?

For girls 25 + years old For older girls who are looking to settle down: would you prefer your boyfriend to be playful and fun or mature and serious? I'm having trouble with a particular girl. I'm getting along...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, what do you think of clumsy girls?

So I'm really clumsy especially in front of guys. If I try to look cool I'll do something that makes me look stupid like tripping over. I also sometimes muddle up my words. Guys in the past have told me that it makes me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a girl be "mean" to you?

This girl is very nice to everybody, she is always smiling and laughing and is very pleasant with most people. When I talk to her, she seems kind of standoffish and can be a real b*tch to me, although in a playful way....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Girls and guys: Should I get an anime tattoo?

I'm kinda into the anime/gaming series called "Touhou" and one of my favorite characters is Sakuya Izayoi. link I was thinking of getting this tattooed to from my shoulder and downward(not all the way down, just as...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl liked me but she rejected me. She still acts interested?

I know the details are very long but I seriously need your opinion on this. There is this girl who apparently liked me. She would constantly stare at me and look away and flick her hair whenever I caught her. She had...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why does my ex want to be friends SO bad?

My ex broke up with me and is going mad because I said I won't be friends with him, he said he thinks it's ridiculous because he wants to stay in touch. Why is he making such a big deal over it? Even though I told him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Am meeting the ex for "drink and catch up"... advice please

Hi folks, thanks in advance for reading and all comments. Basically we've been over for 4 months and had gone out previously for 6 months. She moved away to help her dad look after her terminal step-mum and felt she had...

BigBlueEyes

Xper 5 Age: 46

Guys- what does it mean if you become suddenly protective of a girl?

A guy I know has suddenly started being much more protective than he has in the past- he says he worries about me walking to night class, has started defending me if people jokingly insult me, and is just generally...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Valentine's Day

Why doesn't my boyfriend buy me flowers, surprise me with gifts or anything romantic?

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months now we were dating for 2 months before we made things official. My birthday passed when we were only 1 month I'm a relationship, which is OK for him to just take me out to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

My ex girlfriend text to say "hi"?

hi all i got a text from my ex just saying "HI" nothing more nothing less. this was about a week after we split, I did text back straight away but with the same response "Hi" i have not heard back since and its been a...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

He has some things he needs to sort out? What does it mean?

...A guy you have been seeing for about 3 months says he wants to be with you but he has some things he needs to sort out first?

Anonymous

(30-35)

You make eye contact, and the girl quickly looks away?

What does it mean if I make eye contact with a girl and she quickly looks away? It doesn't appear to be playful either, almost as if she's trying to avoid it...is that an accurate assessment of the situation?

Anonymous

(36-45)

When a girl compares you to her dad?

This girl I like keeps doing it. Like if I laugh at my own jokes and she doesn't she would say "you crack yourself up, just like my dad with his bad jokes" or if I say something or make fun of her in a certain way she...

Anonymous

(36-45)