My brother's wife is a troublemaker?

[Anonymous]

Well, me and my brother's were just having a conversation (catching up with everything). I called her "stuck up" I was just playing and she called me the same thing laughing. My brother was on the phone, while we were talking. She tells him that I called her "stuck up" and they both started to double team me saying things about me. My brother totally took her side. I understand that they are married, but in all honesty, I did not mean any harm. I really think that she tried to start trouble because why did she call her husband (my brother). She could of been woman and told me that bothered her and I would of apologized to her. By her telling my brother, made it seem like she wanted some support and a fight.

I really don't know who to be more mad at him or her. I feel like my brother should of took a neutral approach. I am his sister and PLUS he did not see anything.

Advice please?

[proudtexasgirl]

Well to be honest, he's gotta live with her lol.

Anyways, there would be a huge problem between me and my husband if he didn't stand by me. I don't think they should have tag-team attacked you, but I don't think he was in the wrong at all.

[Asker]

I think she had a motive. I understand that. But she egged him on. I am still family. We all our family. But that's not cool. Wrong is wrong and right is right, Whether she is your wife or not, Its not like I am a stranger, trying to attack his wife.

[mikkie180]

You started with the name calling and she's the trouble maker?

[Asker]

Umm yeah. In the past, she have said negative things about my family. I never said anything. I think it unnecessary for people to attack. I really did not mean any harm. She made it seem like that.