So we have now gone on about 6 dates/hangouts or so in about 3.5 weeks..
This weekend was pretty packed with stuff together (longest we have spent together so far):
Friday- It started off as neither of us having much plans so she said she would keep me updated about something to do. We ended up going to a baseball game and meeting up with some of her friends there. After that we went to some clubs downtown. We held hands and kissed a few times throughout the night. Total time together 7pm - 2am.
Saturday- She had nothing to do so I invited her to go on a road trip to a hiking trail about two hours from where we live, its a trail she has always wanted to go to. We went swimming at a creek while there. During the hike there was a bee that kept following me and we were making jokes about it. She said its because, "Your sweet like sugar". We stopped at a little town on the way home and went to a semi fancy restaurant that I know of and got dinner and beer.
That night she was supposed to go to a friends birthday party but told me she wasn't really interested in going. I didn't say anything about us doing anything else. Anyway, she invited me to come to her place to drink this craft soda brand she likes; so we drank them on her porch. After that we were looking through what was on Netflix. We found a scary movie and watched it in her bed. This is the first time we have been this close to each other for a long period of time and first time we have laid in her bed. We just held each others hands or arms. Towards the end of the movie I was getting tired and leaned over and laid on her chest. I fell asleep and at the end of the movie she woke me up to tell me it was over. Then she just turned off the TV and pulled the covers over herself. She didn't say anything so I just laid back down over her. We cuddled/spooned and went to sleep. Throughout the night we would both move around and like wanting to stay in a comfortable position in which both of us were together.
Sunday (Today)- This brings us up to this morning. We both woke up and basically just tried different cuddle positions and slept in. She would rub my back and arms. She played with my hair. I rubbed her legs and chest. At one point we went back to sleep and I reached over and put my hand up her shirt and held one of her breast and she put her hand over mine. We kissed a few times and I even kissed her breasts. She kept kissing me on the side of my face and neck. Then she held me against her body for like 20mins, like she was holding me as hard as she could. Then she said lets get up but stayed laying on me so we didn't. Finally about an hour later, we both decided it was time to get up out of bed. She walked me out to my car where we kissed and she hugged me for like 5mins. We kept hugging and kissing, not much was said. I asked her if she is glad I cuddled and she said "Yes". I said thanks for letting me spend the night and she said thanks for a fun day.
This weekend was pretty packed with stuff together (longest we have spent together so far):
Friday- It started off as neither of us having much plans so she said she would keep me updated about something to do. We ended up going to a baseball game and meeting up with some of her friends there. After that we went to some clubs downtown. We held hands and kissed a few times throughout the night. Total time together 7pm - 2am.
Saturday- She had nothing to do so I invited her to go on a road trip to a hiking trail about two hours from where we live, its a trail she has always wanted to go to. We went swimming at a creek while there. During the hike there was a bee that kept following me and we were making jokes about it. She said its because, "Your sweet like sugar". We stopped at a little town on the way home and went to a semi fancy restaurant that I know of and got dinner and beer.
That night she was supposed to go to a friends birthday party but told me she wasn't really interested in going. I didn't say anything about us doing anything else. Anyway, she invited me to come to her place to drink this craft soda brand she likes; so we drank them on her porch. After that we were looking through what was on Netflix. We found a scary movie and watched it in her bed. This is the first time we have been this close to each other for a long period of time and first time we have laid in her bed. We just held each others hands or arms. Towards the end of the movie I was getting tired and leaned over and laid on her chest. I fell asleep and at the end of the movie she woke me up to tell me it was over. Then she just turned off the TV and pulled the covers over herself. She didn't say anything so I just laid back down over her. We cuddled/spooned and went to sleep. Throughout the night we would both move around and like wanting to stay in a comfortable position in which both of us were together.
Sunday (Today)- This brings us up to this morning. We both woke up and basically just tried different cuddle positions and slept in. She would rub my back and arms. She played with my hair. I rubbed her legs and chest. At one point we went back to sleep and I reached over and put my hand up her shirt and held one of her breast and she put her hand over mine. We kissed a few times and I even kissed her breasts. She kept kissing me on the side of my face and neck. Then she held me against her body for like 20mins, like she was holding me as hard as she could. Then she said lets get up but stayed laying on me so we didn't. Finally about an hour later, we both decided it was time to get up out of bed. She walked me out to my car where we kissed and she hugged me for like 5mins. We kept hugging and kissing, not much was said. I asked her if she is glad I cuddled and she said "Yes". I said thanks for letting me spend the night and she said thanks for a fun day.
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I really like this girl and want her to be my girlfriend. How do I approach this? Do I just let it happen like it slowly has been happening or next time I see her should I ask her where I stand? I kept noticing through out the whole weekend she would use phrases like "we should" or "I should come with you" when I was describing cool bars downtown or other hiking trails.
ALL advice is appreciated!
ALL advice is appreciated!
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