All Questions

How do aloof guys act when they actually like someone?

He always stares at me when I see him in the halls in college, but he does it with this odd, blank expression and just focuses on me as if no one else was around. He acts very aloof though and almost never starts a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Can you be friends with someone who rejected you? Or should you cut off contact?

So my best female friend of 3 years rejected me when I told her I had feelings for her before she left for college. She said she was still healing from her previous relationship but then she ends up in a relationship with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a guy hugs you for kind of a long time (7 or 8 seconds at least)?

if a guy hugs you closely for like 7 or 8 seconds at the least while squeezing just a little but not like hard or anything, what does that mean (and he turned around to talk to a friend while he was still hugging me with...

hg1221

Xper 3 Age: 32

Break Up & Divorce

What side should I get my tragus pierced on?

okay so I have my nose pierced on the right side. it is a very little diamond stud. I want to get my tragus pierced and I want to get a stud, not a ring, but I'm not sure which side to pierce. I don't want both sides...

aliciaxx

Xper 6 Age: 32

Why is height a big deal for women?

I never understood why women are picky when it comes to height. What's the emphasis on guys having to be taller than them? It makes no sense. I've heard that girls prefer taller guys because they feel safer around them....

blueandwhite

Xper 5 Age: 35

Other

How much do girls remember their first boyfriend?

I went to my school sort of "party" where everybody goes, students, teacher, former students, etc. I was walking through and I don't know how but some way I look straight to my ex girlfriend, who was my first and we were...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

I've been rejected by every girl I've ever liked?

I know this is long, but any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks, you all are awesome ? I’m 17. Young yes, but it still doesn’t change the fact I’ve been rejected by every girl I’ve ever liked. Normally in something...

SlimThunder

Xper 3 Age: 33

Girls, do you get turned on or otherwise enjoy watching two guys in a fight?

If your answer is "it depends", what are some circumstances or scenarios in which you would enjoy watching a fight? If you do like watching it, how decisively do you like to see it end?

Anonymous

(30-35)

I lied about my age!

I've been with this really wonderful guy for almost 2 years, he's 30 and I'm 19 and we met online and back then I was 17 (we met in January 6 months before my 18th birthday and we started dating March 3rd) we live...

CassLivingston

Xper 5 Age: 35

Girl's Behavior

Why do I keep attracting the wrong girls?!!

OK I'm gonna try and say all of this without trying to sound like a female. Also, if I offend anyone please forgive me. I just don't understand why I am attracting certain types of girls. The only girls I ever attract...

Dylan1989

Xper 3 Age: 37

Family & Friends

He has a best friend who is female. Guys and girls - I need to make sense out of this?

SHOULD THIS MATTER TO ME? Does it mean More? I'll keep short and sweet and to the point. My boyfriend and I are great been dating a year been friends a year or so before that. He has a best friend who is female, she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

She says she's talking to someone else?

I asked this girl who I've been talking to for a few months to go out the other night but she said that she was talking to someone now that might find it strange for her to go out with another guy. I noticed she never...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How long do guys wait to text a girl after giving her his number?

My crush and I have been sending at least 56 private messages back and forth to each other on facebook. He finally sent me a message with his number and he asked me to text him. I texted him so that he would have my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are girls seeming to become more and more careless with people's hearts?

Often times now you hear how a girl really screwed a good guy over, but why? why would they give off the impression that they liked the guy if they really didn't? they must feel SOMETHING correct? there's gotta be guys...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What makes guys like Robert Downey Jr, Jack Nicholson so attractive? Even to younger women?

What makes guys like Robert Downey Jr, Jack Nicholson so attractive? Even to younger and attractive women? To me they're looking average. :/

qwer1234

Xper 7 Age: 35

Why is he purposely trying to get to me and hurt me even worse?

OK so recently me and my boyfriend of 3 years broke up. He told me he had lost feelings for me and didn't want to be with me anymore. I was absolutely crushed. Then two weeks after he went on a date with a girl he knows I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does he always greet me this way?

So there's this guy that I know. We barely know each other but we've introduced ourselves to another before. He told me his name and I told him mine. Yet, I can't help but notice that every time he greets me he always...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Maybe some people were meant to fall in love but not be together. Discuss

just after peoples opinions on the subject

Confused201990

Xper 5 Age: 36

Do guys hook up with girls they don't actually find attractive when they are drunk?

Alright boys, just be straight with me... I am not the kind of girl looking for a relationship and I don't obsess about guys, but there is just this one drunken hook-up that I cannot get over. So there was this hottie...

nbbrown6

Xper 6 Age: 34

The Looks Test - Proof that looks matter

So I normally like to think of myself as being attractive...or at least decent. But sometimes I feel like I am fooling myself My best friend, who just for the record is much more attractive than I am and gets A LOT more...

anthonyt4987

Xper 5 Age: 39

So silly question, but what do you guys think of a soft girly voice?

I hate my voice :( It makes me sound younger than I am. Just wondering what you guys think. Thanks in advance :)

Hailnight

Xper 3 Age: 36

Why is it I can never get a guy to like me?

I'm not one of those girls that always has to have a boyfriend, but I'm not gonna lie, I would like to have one. I haven't before, and I don't know why. I'm pretty average, really smart, have hobbies, and a couple of...

norelle

Xper 5 Age: 33

Society & Politics

Do you like introverted guys?

and introverted doesn't mean they're shy, they're just quiet. an introverted guy can even be someone who is thought of as popular and good looking but they aren't the loud ones who are always talking. what do you think...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do girls LIE and say they want a nice guy but then go with bad boy?

My question is not why girl prefer bad boy then nice guy. but why they LIE about it... Why do they say they want nice guy? i just feel like they have no self-respect, or no senses of honor - You wanna go with the bad...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I saw him looking at me. GUYS, your opinion???????

so long story short I liked this guy and told my friend who's friends with him i wouldn't normally tell her to talk to him but he used to stare at me and I thought he was cute,i didn't know him. i told her and she said...

brebre12

Xper 4 Age: 32

What does it mean when a guy always wants to hug you when he's around you?

What does it mean when a guy always wants to hug you when he's around you and he asks you if he can hold you? Is this his way of trying to get closer to you because he actually likes you or just a way to get closer to you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would my boyfriend act so shy and timid around me?

i am 25 years old and he is 24, we have been dating for about 7 months. I just don't understand his actions though. he acts very shy when he is around me and quiet. when he walks in my door he doesn't come up to me and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you girls really like stubble?

My girlfriend is always begging me to NOT shave. I think I look gross after 4 days, but she likes it.

Anonymous

(36-45)

My friend is trying to steal my crush?!

i really like this guy what should I do?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do good looks run in your family?

Look my family and relatives and they almost all have very good looks but some of my friend family don't. Every person I almost meet if who was less good looking so were the family. is this genetics?

studmuffin-perfect10

Xper 3 Age: 40

His friends look and smile at me. Does that mean he likes me?

The guy I like in my class, we barely talk. Sometimes he'll turn around and say things to me, or stare. When he stares, I stare back. He and his friends check me out. He's gotten quiet recently, and hasn't shown any...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Asking the question "where do you see this going" only for females??

For a long time I believed that it was up to the girl to ask the question during dating "where do you see this going?...i.e. are we going to get in relationship". I tried asking that when I was younger and I always got...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does telling a girl how you feel ever work?

There's this girl and.. I love her I'm always thinking about her and it just makes me so happy... Whenever we talked, no matter about what, it cheered me up, especially if I was having a bad day. If I was and I heard her...

Anonymous

(36-45)