I grew up in this role of the protector and nurturer, learning to stand on my own, that I noticed I started to display it towards the guy I use to have a crush on.
(I was worried about him when he acted like a crazy brat, and was not impressed like others for example. Now I have to admit it was kind of funny and "cool", I didn't stop him but I wasn't happy at all to hear about it, let alone amused.)
I know about all kinds of love and I know how to be romantic, but this nurturing love is a part of me that I often can't help but display.
I want to have children one day and the thought of it makes me happy, even though most of my female age-mates disagree. I want to protect people I love and I feel like smacking them when they do dangerous things.
Again sometimes... I want to be the one being spoiled. I want to have someone who wants me for more then friendship or safety. I feel like doing something stupid just so I can see if someone is going to pull me back and protect me.. I want to fall in love.
Is this impossible for someone like me? Are you guys repulsed by this behavior in a girl? Is this motherly instinct I have something that might scare you away? How about the people who often depend on me?
Would the girl who appears strong make you feel inadequate and make you presume you would be unneeded?
I am not ugly, I'm not stupid and I enjoy making people laugh. I seem frail at first sight, but once guys come to know this side of me I think it scares them away or makes them just stay friends. I can't help but to conclude it's so, so I need you to answer my questions because I'm not sure.
Thank you
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