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How can I be sexy and not cute?

Lets face it,guys do not want cute and I've learned that.So I want to stop being called cute and being the friend and never the girlfriend and I don't want to be seen as they good girl anymore because that gets girls no...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Do girls get a rush or enjoy watching two guys in a fight?

What are some circumstances or scenarios in which you would enjoy watching a fight? If you do like watching it, how decisively do you like to see it end? Or do you not like them under any circumstances?

bud144d

Xper 5 Age: 35

Marriage & Weddings

I'm engaged, he's married, what does he want?

I'm a twenty something year old girl whose been with my man for 5 years and planning to marry soon, our relationship has had it's ups and downs but I honestly think we belong together, he's a part of me. I have had a few...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys. do you think about "her" a lot?!

I’m just curious about, how much you ‘guys’ think about your girlfriends, dates, and crushes….it kills me to know…do we girls think about you more or what…? Because sometimes, I get to point where I think… “Why the hell...

monmon

Xper 5 Age: 35

What does it mean if a guy shivers or gets the chills when he sees you?

This guy I see at work often finally introduced himself to me. He actually remembers my name from that one introduction. He seems kinda reserved he smiles a lot when he sees me, but seems like he's always at a loss for...

ShySharee

Xper 5 Age: 44

Why would he start avoiding eye contact with me?

I like this guy and I know he likes me. We use to be able to look each other in the eyes, wave, and smile, etc. What I have noticed is that lately he has been around more, blushes more, and has gone out of his way more....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Boyfriend's friend touched me?

My boyfriends friend came to stay with us for 3 days because he got evicted , he sleeps in the living room. Last night my boyfriend left to go to his aunts to pick up something around 9:00 pm , I was already in bed then,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I get a guy to let his guard down?

I REALLY like this guy and I believe that he likes me too. I know he has had at least one really bad relationship which kind of screwed him up because he opened up to someone who apparently stomped all over his emotions....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What does officially meeting someone mean?

A guy I like and everyone says likes me wave to each other in the hallways. But the only way we know each other is from everyone always talking about us liking each other. Well, he says he wants to OFFICIALLY meet me?...

SingaSaurus

Xper 5 Age: 33

When you tell a guy to delete your number, does he actually do it?

this man was talking to me.. Telling me everything any girl would want to hear.. Saying I'm the one and what not.. He was perfect. He withdrew, and made me realize it was all game. I told him to stop hitting me up. A few...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If you hurt a guy's ego, how do you fix it?

A few months ago I started hanging out with a very sweet guy from school. He was making an effort to see me and I honestly thought we were getting to know each other as "just friends". He never hit on me, or even really...

Anonymous

(36-45)

GUYS: Do you like girls better in jeans or a skirt?

I'm talking about like a nice dressed up outfit with jeans...not like jeans and t shirt thing vs. a tight mini black skirt

Anonymous

(36-45)

My husband's brother flirts with me all the time and I tent to flirt back. Does he want more or is this harmless?

He'll touch me and play flirt with me and the other day I gave him a hug and he kissed me on the cheek and he's never done that before. Also when he hugs me he wraps his arms around me and rubs his hands up and down my...

metee

Xper 3 Age: 40

Why is my ex boyfriend being so cold?

He got a new girlfriend within 3 weeks. I was furious. He called and after insulting me he broke down and asked me why it wasn't me with him instead of his new girl. He said he loved me so much and we can't talk on the...

Oliviawinters

Xper 6 Age: 36

I JUST talked to my crush. YES I approached him but. . . .

I just talked to my crush (YES I walked up to him and initiated the conversation) but when I was talking I felt that he was not interested for some reason. I mean he kept the convo up we made eye contact a couple days...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Let's say a guy walks up to you in the street and he asks you out?

Do you Ladies turn them down cause you don't know them? or would you give that random person a chance?... ladies tell me its about the approach and if he's mind blowing... but how do I become mind blowing lol answer the...

Popnlock

Xper 6 Age: 39

Relationships

Is Young Love Worth Fighting For? Was It Worth It?

I am eighteen years old. I have been with my boyfriend for five months. We have talked about the future and whether we will stay together next year because most likely I will be going to a different college. We both...

ruskiyinlove

Xper 5 Age: 34

Clingy ex in a rebound relationship?

My ex-gf and I broke up about 2 weeks ago, but she's already seeing someone new. Throughout our whole relationship, she was very clingy and needy and pushed me away at times with wanting to see me or talk to me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is my ex boyfriend mad at me for deleting him off of facebook (he broke up with me)?

My boyfriend broke up with me almost 3 months ago, we had been dating for 3 years. Roughly a month ago I decided to delete him from facebook because I was having trouble moving on and I didn't want to see all the new...

Amandabanana

Xper 5 Age: 39

Society & Politics

Do guys over analyze text messages like girls do?

It's all in the title :)

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are impure thoughts considered CHEATING?

So on my youtube show my friends and I were having this debate on cheating and we started getting into this argument on what is considered cheating. So does cheating happen in the mind or is it always physical?

realtalkgurus

Xper 5 Age: 39

Family & Friends

Best Guy Friend Gives Mixed Signals?

I have recently started having feelings for my one of my good guy friends. We are in several classes together and work together at our internship. We text constantly in class and I catch him staring my way all the time...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Ex-Boyfriend's Family Invited Me to Anniversary Party - Do I Go?

I haven't spoken to him since we broke up like nine months ago. We dated for about 3 years and I got really close to his family (and have kept in contact with them since...they were REALLY good to me). The break up was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why won't my guy friend make a move?

My guy friend told me recently that he cares about me. He is always complimenting me and telling me I look beautiful and amazing. But he never initiates hang outs or has asked me out officially on a one on one date. Why...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What is so unappealing about red lipstick?

From time to time I wear red lipstick to school, whether guys find it appealing or not. Generally, I've noticed that girls find it attractive, whether on themselves or someone else, and guys pretty much find it repulsing....

quackingkafreen

Xper 4 Age: 33

Is it wrong to have a boyfriend and think another guy is cute?

so me and my boyfriend have been dating and b4 we started dating this guy I met and he is like really cute! So my guy friend told him I thought he was cute but b4 he had the chance to do anything (if he thought of me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I screwed up and now he won't talk to me. What should I do?

I accused him of being interested in my brother's ex-girlfriend. I only thought this because he's cheated before and he was getting very flirty with her on facebook. Maybe a day before I noticed this, I sent her a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you dress cute and not look slutty?

How do you you dress cute and not look slutty ?

Cherrypiebunny4521

Xper 5 Age: 34

Society & Politics

Girls, could you ever give your boyfriend a wedgie?

Whether or not you have one, would you do it? and why would you do it? I ask because my girlfriend constantly gives me wedgies while we hug, and want to know why.

Anonymous

(36-45)