Is he just trying to get a rise out of me?

[cutybrittany]

Don't ask me why but I guess I had a moment of madness and told my ex that I missed him and loved him..my ex says he is dating someone and then he said I heard you are dating someone too and I know he is lying since he unblocked me on Facebook and made it so I can see his wall posts and pictures but it didn't say he is in a relationship or the fact there are no pictures of him and her or anything. I haven't seen him with her (he lives right next door to me) and he won't tell me her name...just like three days ago we had a fight and he was telling me that he wasn't seeing anyone and then a week before he was acting all childish and was hitting me with a plastic sword in theater class

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someone please help me

[rdr005]

I'm not sure what his issue is... perhaps its a matter of him not being that-type of attracted to you. Maybe he's just playing mind games, or maybe he just recently started talking to a girl. Perhaps not officially so its not on FB yet. Regardless... it is my advise to move on. Why?

He clearly doesn't love you. He may flirt, or tease, or even like things about you, but he doesn't love you. No relationship can work if two people aren't fully committed to each other, and so stop missing him. It is my assumption that if anything... you miss the feeling of being with someone, which is why you miss him... because you don't want to be alone, and don't want to necessarily be single. Moreover... if you really aren't dating, and he isn't either... and he's lying... then yeah... he's probably just trying to see you upset. Actions where he's physically "flirting" with you via sword or any other action may be an attempt to keep you bothered and wondering what the hell he's doing. Just tell him to stop (without getting a temper) and move away from him (in class) instead of just letting him do what he wants. Just keep your temper though, don't let him get you to argue... he's getting fueled by your actions and probably gets happy to see you upset. Either way... I don't know the story in its entirety... but it sounds like he's childish... and you should just get over him and hope that life will offer you something better and more meaningful.