All Questions

My boyfriend has stopped doing the little things.

Okay so...my boyfriend is everything I want in a guy...personality, looks, sweet, caring, sensitive...and he has always done the sweetest little things like bringing me my favorite candy to work or just calling to say I...

nursesarah3

Xper 5 Age: 37

Do guys really prefer to say "I love you" first?

Do guys really prefer to say "I love you" first? This is a much debatable subject that my friends and I can never manage to agree on. Your thoughts?

the-love-guru

Xper 4 Age: 40

Is depression a turn-off?

I'm 20 and have been struggling with depression. About 2 years ago, I had a bit of a mental breakdown. I don't mean I went crazy. I just went through a period and severe depression... like I could barely move sometimes....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Do you girls find big arms attractive or a turn on?

I have pretty big arms, there not ripped or anything ridiculous there just big. I have a lot of muscle in them its just that there not toned. and I'm not a small kid either, so there pretty proportional to my body....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

What do I wear to the bar? (first timer!)

This is going to be the first time I have ever been to the bar. I am 20 years old, but I have decided I won't be chicken anymore and I am going to go with one of my girlfriends. I do not know what to wear though. I do not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

A Guy's View on Texting

When it comes to texting, who should be the one to initiate the texting? If you meet a guy, and you swap numbers, should the girl wait on the guy to text? If he does text, should you text back right away or wait? I have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

My boyfriend brags so much.

Ok, I know he's hot and good at sports and all that. Obviously I think he's great, I'm dating him! But it drives me crazy that my boyfriend can go on and on and on about how he did something super awesome and everyone...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Is $400 too much to spend on his birthday?

By the time his birthday comes around, my boyfriend and I will have been together for 2 and a half months. Is $400 too much to spend on presents alone? I'm only buying him two things, a new winter coat and a new mp3...

dazzlethemdead

Xper 5 Age: 35

What does it mean if a guy doesn't invite you over to his house?

I have been dating this guy for about 3 months now. We see each other a few times a week and talk on the phone couple of times a day. A few weeks after we started dating he had invited me over to his place for dinner...

FireFly213

Xper 5 Age: 55

Just broke up with my boyfriend, but he still wants to be friends?

I broke up with my Boyfriend 3 days shy of our 1 year dating anniversary. We've recently graduated from college, and having been dating long distance for 3 months. I'd been feeling burdened by having to keep him...

l0vergirl

Xper 5 Age: 39

Girl's Behavior

Subtle or direct sexiness?

there are 2 ways to be sexy and unfortunately most of the time girls seem to make a confusion between being sexy and being vulgar. the direct sexiness means a short or VERY short dress, a naked bellybutton, and a deep...

aalexandraa

Xper 5 Age: 46

Do girls ever make the first move and ask guys out and initiate the date and relationship? How rare is it?

I know that an overwhelming majority of girls wait and expect guys to pursue them and chase them, make the first move and ask them out and initiate the relationship, but I know there are some exceptions in which the...

moviedude714

Master Age: 38

Revenge On My Sister?

I have a sister who's been treating me like trash lately. We share a room and always leaves it a mess, and somehow expecting me to clean it. She doesn't know how to respect my belongings by borrowing my clothes (and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

How important are eyes?

How important are eyes to a woman what colors do they like mine are hazel what are yours?

AcEMasTeR

Xper 3 Age: 36

I'm confused. She got back with her ex after messing around with me for a month but still seems intrested in me.

Hey everyone . I started flirting with a girl at work since day one. She had a boyfriend so she broke up with him the first week of us talking because of how mean and bad he was to her. So we end up hanging out doing you...

Speediy

Xper 5 Age: 39

I am so confused about my idiot crush!

Ok, I have a crush on a guy and apparently, a friend of mine told me that he isn't interested because apparently my crush told him... but my crush ALWAYS looks at me..like ALWAYS! How come guys look at you when they...

lushlove

Xper 4 Age: 38

My girlfriend didn't say she loved me back. is this bad?

My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months and I truly love her. But after talking with her on the phone tonight I told her I loved her and she didn't say anything back. Is this bad?

braden08

Xper 5 Age: 34

Can I marry my aunt's husband's cousin?

is this considered wrong? are we related in any sort of way? would it be frowned upon ?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Baby, babe, hun, honey, sweetie, sugar, etc. What do you call your partner?

I use the ever so popular babe and baby with the occasional hun. What about everyone else? Pet names or unusual nicknames. Let's hear em!

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does she still think of me?

My girlfriend and I of 2 1/2 years broke up 2 months ago. Wasn't a bad break-up necessarily, but the last conversation we had she said she'd be happy if she never talked to me again in her lifetime. I did nothing wrong,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I be a homewrecker?

she likes me I know it she openly flirts with me and I like her too should I take more steps to get her to dump her boy and get wit me

dtaylor31906

Xper 7 Age: 35

Why am I not attracted to white girls?

I'm a white guy and I'm just not attracted to white girls in general...Ok I'll admit there has been the odd exception here and there but that's it. I don't know why. I've got nothing against white girls and my bad...

Crazycanuck

Xper 6 Age: 40

First mixed gender sleepover, any ideas?

Hi, I'm having, my first co-ed sleepover with 2 of my guy friends and 1 or my girlfriends, does anyone have any tips or great ideas on what we could do?I have no idea what the guys would be expecting! I don't want any...

Aisleen

Xper 3 Age: 34

Intimidated by blonds?

Women do you feel afraid that blond women are more attractive than you are? I have heard people say things like that they get all the attention.

nbc5023

Xper 3 Age: 36

What piercings if any do girls like on guys?

do girls like piecing on guys other than ears.. you know like eyebrow or lip or nose...if so what ones and why. thanks.

kriskiss

Explorer Age: 39

Society & Politics

Wrong to steal my coworker's crush?

Ok, there's this girl I work with that just recently became single, and I'm interested in asking her out. Problem is, I work side by side with a guy who is OBSESSED with her and says he doesn't want any other girl but...

Evil_Muska

Xper 5 Age: 39

New Relationship--- how do I loosen up?

So, I've recently started dating this guy. We've been talking for three weeks non-stop, like every night and we currently live a bit far away from each (once college starts it'll change) so we've only met 3 times. And he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex dumped me and tries to make me jealous. But why?

it's been 6 weeks since he dumped me. He wasn't cheating or had another girl in his mind. he just said he needs space and doesn't love me any more. but I can tell that he's trying to make me jealous and is waiting for me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Should I go visit him first?

I met this guy a week ago, though a mutual friend. We really hit it off and ended up spending the night together (we did not have sex). The problem is he lives 2 hours away. He and I have communicated everyday since we...

Steph3500

Xper 5 Age: 42

Society & Politics

Do guys like girls that skateboard?

It's all in the question.I'm just curious.

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I get rid of my boyfriend's baby momma?

He says he doesn't want her back but she is always sending him sexy pictures of her to his phone. He keeps them instead of deleting them. He doesn't even have a picture of me in his phone or his wallet. She is programmed...

Anonymous

(36-45)