All Questions

Is it ok to go to his house for dinner for a first date?

We started out with a few emails then IMing a few times then talking on the phone a couple of times. We agreed to me for coffee 2 days ago. We are going to meet for coffee again tomorrow(Friday) He had asked me out for...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why does he stare but not talk to me?

So I like this guy, and I think he likes me too, but I'm really not sure! I don't know if he knows that I like him or not, but he always stares at me! It's funny because I have never talked to him! I'm pretty sure he's...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Hey baby, wanna wrestle?

Why do some women think it is ok to be physical and hit men but don't think it is ok for men to do the same thing to women? I personally don't think anyone should be getting violent. I saw a tv show the other day where...

NotSoBad

Yoda Age: 46

My Boyfriend Wants To Join The Marines?

What should I do? I mean me and him talked about it and he knows I don't want him to. But the only reason he does is because right now his dad is in the marines. So I'm guessing he wants to be like his dad. And right...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is my old crush jealous?

A group of friends sitting together just talking having a good time, my old crush sitting across from me, this guy sitting right next to me, I said something funny and he was sitting next to me grabbed my shoulders and...

evette

Xper 6 Age: 55

Relationships

Should I call a guy who stood me up for a date and never called me to apologize?

I met this guy 4 months ago and we were in contact at least once per week. I would always hint to him that I would like for him to take me out but his excuse was that he has a hectic schedule. I finally got frustrated...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Why don't women like their picture taken?

Today I was talking to a girl and asked her about getting a picture of her. She said she didn't like pictures, and didn't have any. That brought something to mind. My girlfriend says pretty much the same thing to me;...

lovebird01

Xper 7 Age: 73

How far should you go on your first kiss?

So I'm going on a date (my first) with this guy this weekend. I've only known him for a few weeks but I like him and I know that he really likes me. I've never kissed anyone, so I am really worried about it. I was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I tell my boyfriend that I cheated on him?

I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. I'm a year older than him and more experienced in dating but he doesn't mind. When I first started dating him I had just broken up with my ex for cheating on me (he had left...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it bad if you have a young sounding voice?

Everyone that calls my house is always asking if they can speak to "mommy and daddy". A date called looking for me not long ago and thought when I answered that he was trying to pick up a 6 year old girl because of how...

LessthanLisa

Xper 4 Age: 39

Why is he the only one that gives me butterflies?

Every time I see him or someone says his name, I get butterflies and feel like I'm gonna burst. What does this mean? Out of all of my crushes, he is the only one these feelings happen with.

anime-queen813

Xper 5 Age: 35

Girls have you ever dated a player?

Have you ever dated a guy that was a player always hung out with his friends and treated you like crap. For some odd reason you still wanted him? Then you thought why don't I date a nice guy. So you start dating the...

NotSoBad

Yoda Age: 46

Girl's Behavior

Should I worry about my girlfriend and her male admirers?

Well my new girlfriend has many male admirers. She doesn't notice it but she keeps telling me stuff about all these guys that are in her life. She says she tells me because she doesn't want any lies between us and wants...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Why is she acting distant all of a sudden?

I have a female friend I've known for 3 years. I went away for 2 years and when I came back she was so affectionate to me. I have always wanted to be more than friends with her so I asked her for a date to which she...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What if I call a guy and he doesn't pick up?

This call would be the first call that I have made to him. Because we just met a few weeks ago and I "think" he is interested in me but he's playing hard-to-get! To cut the long story short, last time I saw him, he tells...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I get the courage to smile at him?

I got the courage to actually make eye contact with my crush. He smiled at me friday, so how can I get the courage to smile at him. When I do it I end up chickening out.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it tacky to send flowers to a girl you don't really know?

If you've never been formally introduced to someone, but you see each other around, is it ok to send flowers as a way to introduce yourself?

soLeYopticAls

Xper 5 Age: 40

Girls Ask a Guy to Prom? Or Is It a Guys Job to Ask a Girl?

I really like this guy. Can I ask him to prom? Do guys like it when girls ask them to homecoming, prom or other formal events? Or do they think girls who ask them out are cheap, easy, desperate or some other negative...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Sexuality vs masculinity issues

I am currently having a debate with a guy who thinks: Enjoying receiving anal sex is gay, even if the sex partner is female and ALL men believe this(or should/are gay in denial) Now I can't understand his logic because...

Hoshi-Reed

Xper 5 Age: 48

Is he just stringing me along? Why?

Okay so my ex and I just broke up 2 weeks ago. He broke up with me because he said we were just two different people and he couldn't deal with all the drama anymore and I wasn't ready for a real relationship. The truth of...

Candygirl6949

Xper 3 Age: 39

How do I flirt with him?

So I went to a movie with this guy I like (who likes me) and a few other people. When sitting down, it was totally obvious that everyone was moving around in order for us to sit next to each other. During the movie,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Stretchmarks The Deal Breaker?

Ok guys. Picture this scenario: You meet a pretty and thin girl (5'7 & 128 pounds) and you've been getting to know each other for the past 1 1/2 month. You really like each other, have great chemistry, laugh together a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does it mean anything when he smiled back?

I made a decision to start making eye contact with the guy I like when I pass him in the halls. Today I did and he made it with me? Does that mean anything? He also kind of smiled a little bit? What about that, does that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Valentine's Day

How to forgive my girlfriend of 5 years for cheating on me with my cousin?

My girlfriend and I have been dating for five years, since high school. She is the only girl I have slept with and I was the only guy. We had been having some relationship problems as of late. Basically she told me she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys avoid liking their best friends sisters?

I like one of my bro's best friends on and off. We hang out a lot with my bro and their other guy friends because we play sports together. I hang out with the guys a lot and everyone is usually joking around with me and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are shy guys uncomfortable around girls they like?

I've had a history of nonverbal flirting with this guy. And most people say he's really quiet/shy but he is not around me. He seems really comfortable around me lately since he's warmed up to me. He seems to be trying...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What happens on a movie date?

Will most girls let you put your hand over their shoulder during a movie on the first date? And should you ask before you do it?

dsvjr

Xper 3 Age: 34

Relationships

It has only been 6 weeks...and he says he LOVES me!

My boyfriend and I have only been together for 6 1/2 weeks and last weekend he told me that he was In LOVE with me! I care about him very much. We see each other just about every day. But I feel like it is still too early...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Guy coming over to my house WHAT SHOULD I DO???

A guy that I've been making out with for about 5/6 weeks is coming over to my house tomorrow for a while. is it okay just to hang around and watch tv??? thanks!

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls like comforting & taking care of guys?

I was hanging out with this girl on the weekend and we were relaxing in my room laying in bed. I was on the floor, she was on the bed. She couldn't help but notice that something was bothering me. Eventually she asked me...

DaBlah

Xper 3 Age: 40

Girls, what annoys you the most in guys?

I know that there are many things that guys do that annoy annoy the hell out of girls. Please vote in the poll and explain why in the answer.

Quackpotty

Xper 6 Age: 42