If you fell head over heels for this girl/guy and he/she ended things then came back asking for a second chance could you give it to them?
Most Helpful Girl
No, I definitely could not. Don't get me wrong - it seems to work for some people. He may even think he truly means it, but it is a different question entirely if it wouldn't happen again. I don't think I could trust the guy or ever care for them as much again if they hurt me that much. I could forgive them and maybe be friends, but I couldn't force myself to feel the same way again. So my advice: could you see yourself ever trusting him and caring about him freely again after what he did? If yes, feel him out to see if he is genuine and take it slow. If not, don't waste your or his time. Life is too short to pretend, and in the meantime you could find the one who cares enough to not hurt you that much. Just be honest with yourself about if he is worth the risk again.2
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