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No, I do not agree. I think your logic is warped and you are full of bs.
My ex hurt me badly, didn't gave me any explanations, left me in a wreck and confusion. To hell if I should take him back again.
I disagree and I will not get back together with my exes I don’t want to be with them and they don’t want to be with me.
They are exes for a reason.
And while I’ll admit there might be the odd ex for someone out there in the world where this is applicable. For 90% of people out there it’s not valid and is really horrible advice.
Most relationships that end do so on a bad note be it a form of abuse, a form of an addiction, infidelity, sexual incompatibility, one of them not helping out at home, etc.
I only see being in different parts of your lives, job opportunity or distance as why you would end on a good note.
Most of YOUR relationships end on a bad note.
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Maybe they did or maybe they didn't.
Maybe if the break up is amicable like two people going to different colleges or starting careers in different states and they meet up again and start dating a few years later but cheating or any kind of abuse from your ex then you making a mistake and inviting history to repeat itself. The only reason to date an ex is sex, I've done that but that's all I wanted from that lying cheating bitch.
The past is the past let it go or be doomed to repeat.
My ex cheated on me once
I gave him a second chance after a few months when he convinced me that he is willing to be loyal this time
He cheated again
Don't go back with your ex. You guys broke up for a good reason.
Lmao fck toxicity. We’re meant to move forward in life, not backwards. If he got left behind, it was for a good reason
people fail to tell people about there plans instead of making it sound like something else. i had an ex once fail to mention to me what she wanted to do in life or any plans. but she's not obligated to do so by any means. but to not disclose her intent. oh i forgot i deserved it. anywasy so i gave her space like she asked to be understanding of her feelings. i did that just to be told that i am not paying her any attention. i really wonder why she would come back she already had s life planed with someone else.. thats fine and im ok that he makes her happy. no body should live in hostile toxic environments. but to come back to it not really sure anybody should point a finger at being toxic. happy new year.
Absolutely not. I've had a lot betrayals in the past, so once you've lost my trust, you're not getting it back.
The modern bully is someone who pretends to help you when he/she really isn't. Hence I will cut them out over the tiniest infraction.
And this my friends is what I like to call a toxic relationship 👏👏👏👏👏
No its not. How is something a toxic a relationship?
Why would you WANT to go BACK to your ex?
re read my mytake above to answer that question.
You are 17 and you are young. But once you get older love becomes complicated. It isn't just breaking up because you dont like them anymore. Sometimes as you get old you actually are in love but you breakup because someone got a new job in a different city or differences in how many kids you want to have. Or differences in whether to save up for a house or a vacation. Or just all of the crazy adult stuff that happens where people might be different and have different ideas about the life they want to live.
I will never forget an ex once saying to me "I love you. But love is not enough." I have learned love is not enough. Sometimes it is luck and timing and fate.
Ok true, but I'm old I play golf and I think I might have arthritis. But anyways back to this topic you do have a good points but I'm not about to go back to my ex after what she said to me and after what you have done no ma'am no salami no ham no turkey.
I’ll say no. If it it was mutually. Time apart means you have grown into a new person and them as well. You may still be looking for the old person. Plus there’s billions of people in the world it’s okay to move on.
Huh. I haven’t had an ex in over 20 years. Can’t imagine dating any of them again. But I’m going to venture to say they became exes for a reason?
Yes ma'am preach! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I met my first boyfriend when we were juniors in hs.
We broke up 6 months later and been and started dating again recently and we both grew and matured and it was the best thing i ever did
Unless the main cause for breaking up actually changed over time I see no reason to go back to an ex. And better waiting years than months so the change is more permanent.
First of all ty for sharing this.
But I will most likely never take an ex back. They are an ex for a reason. My expetience exs dont change. They only want what they want. I break up with them because they either cheat or dont care about me.
You do you... its your life
Ty your right its my life.
1. It wasn't a toxic relationship.
2. Still care for each other.
3. Broke up because of different schedules but never stopped loving and caring for each other.
they're an ex for a reason. Stop being so desperate. In a whole ocean you decide to remain inside the eye of a raindrop. Not me! Life's too damn short for that!
There's no way I'd date any of mine again. There are some girls I fooled around with I'd try dating but the actual relationships, I'd rather be single then with them.
I agree. Some exes can be actually right for you, and just because there was a breakup once doesn’t mean that it won’t work out if you get back together.
ONLY if we were the last two people on earth.
And ONLY if she went blind and lost the ability to speak.
And ONLY then, is it a hard "maybe."
There have been a lot of bad takes, but this is possibly the worst. Anyone who reads this comment, don't follow this. If you are out you are out, there are those who will treat you better. Don't get back with an ex.