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I really only broke up with one ex where it was a really serious relationship.
I did not text or play mind games.
I was pretty clear it was over. She didn't beg or chase.
I find guys are less likely to gain much satisfaction in having their ex beg for them back. For the most part, if the guy has no intention of getting back together, he will not care if the ex-gf doesn't come begging.
Girls tend to get more satisfaction when guys come begging back
No, we don't care. The flyer text messages you are referring to are just little appeals and regrets. Bouts of loneliness, etc, etc. You escaped a fun person who wasn't for you, don't dwell on the past, it seems you have a magnificent future. Surround yourself with people like that and get offline, back in life.
I actually find it incredibly annoying if an ex chases after me and/or begs me to take her back.
Yes, this has happened to me, and all it did was bug me. If I break up with someone, there is a reason for it. I don't just arbitrarily dump someone; I give it a lot of thought first. If there are serious problems that can't be worked out, then why would I ever want her back. If I thought the problems could he overcome, I wouldn't break up with someone in the first place.
Yes, it hurts and it sucks getting dumped (I've dumped, and been dumped, so I know), but by ending a relationship that has no future, it allows both people to move on, and find someone they're more compatible with. When a girl tries to get back together with me after the relationship has ended, it just reaffirms the choice I made when ending it.
I'll answer as a girl who's been through it - YES! I used to be crazy about someone , they could do anything and I would forgive them and one day after distancing myself and taking time - I learned they would never change and there are better guys out there. I'm a bigger person enough to reply if he asks me a questions or something but he makes efforts to get my attention and be seen and they are always denied by me - I can tell this bothers him. When a guy does stupid stuff and one day the girl decides she's done he's left confused, thinking wow what was it that finally set her off? or who did she meet that didn't treat her like that? Ultimately they realize they missed out on a great girl and can't accept it and almost want her more because she isn't as easy to come back.
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