my ex is a f*cking prick! we broke up based on the fact that he pretty much just couldn't be bothered because we live about half and hour away from each other. he had the nerve to dump me through Facebook because I got really drunk one night. then he dragged everything out for 3 weeks! THEN a day before I went away to london he ended things completely! so I went out with my friend and obviously he happened to be out as well. so because I'm a naiive prick I thought that after he dragged me off to "talk" and to hug and kiss me that things would have been sorted out so we ended up having sex. but o yeahh next day he asks if we could pretend like it didn't happen because he didn't want his new girlfriend to find out!
so we talked through emails etc as obviously I was devastated. and he explained everything to me. so we pretty much decided to put it all behind us and be friends.
but oh no! he's a prick to me, so I block him. and then he goes out and sends me "drunken texts" telling me that he missed me and to kiss him and that he wanted to see me and that I still meant something even though I shouldnt.
and when I confronted him the next day he accuses me of sleeping around! so when I said "why would you care anyway?!" he replies with "why the f*ck wouldn't I care?! I still f*cking care for you but I don't want to!".
charming right?
so I've deleted him off everything as he has made it impossible for us to be friends. but wait, he just really tipped the scale. he dumped his last girlfriend because she wouldn't have sex with him and a couple of days later he with my friend! and the big thing is, is that I really CANT excape him now! and he even said to me that a reason we didn't work was because of the distance...SHE'S RIGHT DOWN THE ROAD FROM ME!.
he still telling people not to invite me to things now! its pathetic its been nearly 3 months since we broke up!
he's dead to me. he's proved he can't be a friend. he's not my problem anymore.
he apparently doesn't care, so why the f*ck should i.
Ahh- my ex boyfriend is such a piece of sh*t! He was always trying to control me and take up all of my time- he was p*ssy when I spent my spring break helping special needs children 'cause he wouldn't see me. This is the week after he called me a whore for liking a guy before we were even talking. This was the week after he guilted me into blowing him and three minutes later packing up his sh*t before he left for a week of video games and soda. The same boyfriend who got annoyed when my extra curriculars ran over time, or I needed an afternoon at the library by myself, or when I wouldn't study with him. The same boyfriend who guilted me into sitting him with lunch and dinner EVERY day, and sent me f***ing annoying morning texts so I could never sleep in. And then when I finally broke up with him, he cried (heavily) and asked if we could still be friends. And then the next day sent me a texts begging to see me. And then the next day until I finally said okay, and then he just sat there and cried, and showed me a text message he'd sent to his boyfriend about he "never told **** how much I really loved her" and then sniffled and said "I just want you to know that...that I do, and how I always will". RUINING any good memories I might have had with him, and screwing up my memory of the first time anyone said they loved me. Jerk. And then he guilted me into seeing him on his birthday, which was a waste of an hour of my life and uncomfortable and awkward, and he had teary eyes the whole time, and I couldn't escape from his house fast enough.
And I was relatively okay with all this until he sent me a text in the middle of the night saying how he missed me. And then when I pointed how miserable it was last time we saw each other, he still p*ssed me off by saying I was putting up a wall, and how he "cared for me more than I would ever know" and then when I told him that I didn't feel that way, the next second he responds with how "he guesses I'm not the kind, sweet, understanding girl he thought I was". WTF? Dick.
This is going probably sound a little strange but my current boyfriend is such an effing douche sometimes. I mean seriously what is his deal its like everything I say to him goes in one ear and out the other. I tell him how I feel he gets p*ssed I don't tell him and he gets mad I'm not communicating its like shiit I can't do anything right! He is totally in love with his buddies I mean seriously I mean talk about anal sex. Lol he isn't really gay but I swear! I mean your like 24 dude grow the hell up! I'm so sick of hearing him bitch about work...I say one thing about my work and its time for bed. I'm sooo sick of watching his gay ass movies too like when do I get to pick a movie and seriously if you don't like the groceries I'm buying then either f***ing come with me or go yourself. its like he wants me to be is mother not his girlfriend. PUT THE TOILET SEAT DOWN I mean it takes one second! And when I'm sick don't get p*ssed when I want to take a nap! Wow thank you that felt amazing! Ughh this is the best answer I have ever wrote haha. Ps my best friends boyfriend can go to hell as well! Xoxo
I try not to subscribe to the hating of ExGFs past.
I suppose this is not the kind of thing that you want to be hearing Reeses-pieces777, but really as angry as my ExGFs made me I find it extremely hard to bring myself to hate them. On the one hand they did some pretty rotten things to me but I can't say my time with them was a complete waste. There were some really great times and some good and mediocre times mixed in with all the bad as well. The way they acted after the break-ups made it too hard to hate them. At the worst, in this case I find that "I nothing them", and the best I can say I at least "like" them.
Anyway I've long since learned in my life that there is little point in holding onto the hate, especially when it comes to things as trivial as an Ex. I mean unless s/he slashed you up and left you to die in a ditch (or something equally horrifying) I found that there really isn't enough point to it. It's just a waste of energy, and time, and ultimately your life. Life is too short to be spending it on such terrible things as hatred. This is part of why I let it go. Trust me though when I did I felt a lot better for it.
Now I can already imagine this post being voted down into obscurity, but the thing is I really am speaking the truth as best I see it. I mean this is something I am more and more living by. Some of you will likely want to argue against this, and I don't blame you. It seems kinda like it's all lovey-dovey granola eating tie-dye-wearing hippie bullshit, and I can understand you thinking so, but to me I see it as truth, and for me this is something I came to terms with on my own. It works for me. but maybe not everyone.
Anyway I know you're hurting right now Reese. My heart goes out to you. I hope I can think of a way to cheer you up soon. In the mean time I hope things get better for you. You're way too awesome to have to deal with this crap.
Much love to ya. Bye.
I don't hate most of my ex-gfs. Some of them are downright awesome people. But I like your rant idea, so here's to a few or the other ones, in alphabetical order:
J and I dated on-and-off for years. She told me she loved me twice: once when I broke up with her for being a psycho, and once after we got back together and she started f***ing some hipster she's not attracted to just because it's what her friends expected of her. When I found out, she threw a temper tantrum and I haven't spoken to her since. I probably never will. Classy dame, she wasn't.
And there's K, who was sleeping with me and some other guy and lying about it. If she had just told me she wanted to screw around, I might have been OK with it and I certainly wouldn't hate her. I figured out what was going on and stopped talking to her. When she realized couldn't have me, she got really flirty. Creepy-guy can keep you, K. Also, stop posting things to your blog when I can tell you're crying.
L, we never even really dated, we just used each other for sex. You were too much of a flake anyway. Have fun with the guy who wears neon shades and lives with his mom. I know he doesn't play an instrument or sing, but he's a real rockstar and his parents give him enough cash every day to buy lots of PBR.
And there's M, who actually thinks I'm still into her. M, we can be friends, but only if you promise to never touch me again. I've heard the saying that every time we sleep with someone, we sleep with all her/his former partners by proxy. I don't really believe that, but I don't want to chance sex-by-proxy with your spoiled, silver-spooned, underage neckbeard boyfriends who are too lazy to clean the food off of their own clothing. Have fun with them. It would have never worked out between us anyway.
That was awesome. Thanks for starting this topic!
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so awesome, I raed a few potss and I just want to rant also about how much I hate this person, lets call him P.
So P, and I dated. And all he could talk about was his ex g. WTF? How they f***ed so much an in so many positions, how their first time of f***ing went, how she orgasmed every time and what she did and said, and what she liked to talk about, about her family and that she was super smart and that they lived together for 3 years and they did EVERYTHING together, and that they f***ed so much, and they f***ed everywhere and all the places and in th cfar and so on and so forth, how she liked to dance, and how wet her p**** was and how many times he got to f*** her and he felt so lucky to have been f***ing her for so long and 10 times a day and for 3 years... WTF? and I let him go on to talk about her and how she wore his clothes, what kinds of games she played, what kinds of friends she had, where she worked, what she was doing now... etc etc, basically everything about her... and then I was like, OK asshole, you're so into her... lets break up (I did this 2 months after we dated) and then He was like... NO! and started to tell me that that was all a lie... and he started to tell me she was a blood sucking vampire bitch who stole everything from him, never wanted to do anything with him, used him for sex and money and for his car, and called him names and told him he was ugly all the time... started arguements all the time, and cheated on him with a whole bunch of other guys... I told him, WTF? why did youl ie to me? now I'm confused about this asshole and his fake stories... and now I hate him to death because I'm with him still 10 months later and am in the dark about what really happened to him and his only ex ever... when they were 16. he's 24 going on 25 now... wtf right? just shut the f*** up dude... if you dont' know the rules of dating, just don't date damnit! AGh... f***ers.
I hate my ex boyfriend so much.
Lying, cheating arsehole. Play me off against some other girl will you because you can't make your mind up? Think I wouldn't find you out did you? Too bad you were stupid enough to post up a link for a hotel on Facebook, one week after lying to me saying you had a heavy workload on and that you didn't have any time off available and then having the bare faced cheek to say to me you were staying there for a course.
What a coincidence that on the day you broke up with me which happened to be Valentine's Day (yeah thanks for that) you make friends with some girl who lives in the same town as the mentioned hotel. You think I'm that stupid that I would've figured that out?
I thought all that time you were working, I brought you presents, looked after you while you were suppossedly putting all those long hours. All that time you were laughing in my face about it, makes sense now why you wouldn't answer your phone and kept coming home after midnight. But no, I trusted you, I thought you were better. That whole month I was worried that you would lose your job and you were chatting up some other little tart.
Well thanks for everything Stu..I'm now stronger, wiser and a better person. I'm so glad you're sterile, because God help the world if people like you ever bred.
i was with my ex for a month, promised me dis and dat, full on luvly made me feel well special text me all da time den if I ddnt text bak he's like...wats rong? jeez! den HE turns funni after 2 weeks blames it on work and dusnt even have da balls 2 b honest and jus pushes me away instead! and he's like I do wanna be wiv you but ma actions may say I dont! huh!? actions speak louder than words sweetheart! he's so immature and childish and da person he made himself out to be at da beginning is NOT who he is now, he claims he nos of love and respect...tsch...PULEASE! h8 it wen people use da word LOVE and ain't got a clue what it meens, and even now, he STILL won't be upfront and jus b like no I dnt have feelings for you, bloody cheek! then he says hell 'always' be there 4 me and he bloody well isnt, even as a m8 he's simply friggin useless! little boy, inexprienced, and dusnt have a scooby doo wen it cums 2 women. ARSEHOLE. @ 24 you would fink he'd no a fing or 2...but no. wata waste of time! ahhhhhhhh I feel beta :)
I HATE MY EX! she won't cut me loose, we've had it out like 20 times in the past 8 months, she threatened to turn me in for harassment when I told her off. Now that we are finally finished she calls and texts me to "talk" she keeps saying I'm not over her. When we first got together she was rubbing up against me saying she wants to be with me, while she was with my best friend, she breaks up with him and then when I touch her she acts like I tried to force her or something then months later she starts up with that grinding on me BS, I find out later that she is with another guy and tell her off and she tried to have him beat me up. Months later she said she sorry and that she was immature and really wanted to be with me, I ignored her and even told her I moved she she would leave me alone... So she sends me sexy pics (I never asked for them and deleted them right away) and turns around and said I was asking for them (thats when she tried to turn me in for harassment). Finally she said she was finished with me and now she is trying to talk to me again, because she needs a shoulder to cry on 'cause her current man is married and won't leave his wife for her but still wants to have sex, I'm like I moved on leave me alone but she won't quit she even tried to solicit herself so I would talk to her. And some time withing all that she was asking to move in with me 'cause her parents kicked her out for her BS ! god she needs to just leave me alone, I mean what we had was good in the beginning but she only did that when she was dating someone else (whats up with that btw?) and she just needs to grow up.
wow I do feel better that rant was just what I needed. I can't believe a that out of all me ex's she is the only one I still rant about (I've had 3 other gfs since her) but she is the only one who treated me that badly and she just won't get out of my life. Plus she is the craziest girlfriend I ever had.
I went out with this guy few years ago and it ended badly. then 2 months ago I get this message frm him on msn messenger.and I hadnt talked to him in yrs!it just brought up all the resentment I had felt at the time and felt like it had happened yday.of course I got on the phone to my best friend and ranted for a while and then felt fine lol.
i know I was really lucky cos I dodged a bullet.not everything was bad in the relationship but there wasn't a whole lot right with it either...im past the hate unless I think about it too much. but no way did I want to reply to his msg-id be sucked back into being frnds with him cos he's such a clingy loser-kept telling me that I was too hot and cold yet he cheated on me and left me high and dry for 2weeks!havnt been on my msn account in a while cos it just freaked me out. I was more angry with myself tho at the time cos I really settled and didn't think I could do better. when we went out I preferred this other guy but picked the guy I knew I could get instead of what I wanted which was the ultimate self-betrayal.i allowed him to grow on me when I should have trusted my gut instinct. I didn't think much of him when I first met him but I had such low self-esteem that I was like "OH ill give him a chance". oh but I have learned from it big time! I still cringe when I think of the whole thing but the hate is gone. just more like relief that its over now, like lucky escape. when he emailed I was like well at least he doesn't hav my ph no!
ahh that did feel good =)
I just broke up with my boyfriend... so honestly... this is a heaven sent for me! This is my rant: The jerk broke up with me only a week after he claimed things were going "perfectly" and he claimed "he was so happy" that he met someone like me. We had been dating for four months. He tells me a week before he breaks up with me, that he needs to "think" about our relationship. However, a couple days after he tells me this... he calls me up on the phone... tells me he went to the hospital. He called me specifically to go to his apartment. Being a good girlfriend, I went immediately to support him because I was worried about him and didn't want him to be alone while he was in pain. He didn't tell anyone about but me... not even his parents. What happened to him was very serious... so it wasn't one of those situations that I could overlook. Later that week, he invited me to stay over at his place. I slept with him that night, and then he breaks up with me the next morning (keep in mind we slept together before, so it was definitely not our first time). Then, the a*shole, he pulls out the friend card saying "Oh, we can still stay in touch and check up on each other" NO BIG DEAL. What bull... I told him: NO WAY. I am not being someone's bench warmer nor their b*tch. Excuse me... but f*ck him! I deserve so much better than that crap! I never thought he would treat me that way... guess people are full of fantastic surprises, huh?! I know I am reeking of sarcasm... but seriously... what the hell? Feels freaking good to vent that... ughhh
Hell yeah!
I hate my ex boyfriend so much. He took my little heart and ripped it in two. I admired that jerk-off so freaking much. He was so sweet and so perfect, and then he went off to college and thought he was way too cool for me. Too busy to talk? I can see your name on the online list on facebook stupid! Mr. Busy always ran through my thoughts even after I broke up with him. I don't know why he thought after I broke up with him he could try to charm me and use me for sex and act like it meant something. Are you that desperate..no, no..that straight up CRUEL? My fault for believing what came from that stupid pretty boy mouth.
What I most appreciated was after falling for his jerk-off tactics, being led to think he CARED and wanted to try again, we had lousy sex, and right after that he told me about the girl he likes. Best yet it wasn't even a confession, it was casually; I felt really miserable with him texting his friend next to me in bed, ignoring my presence, so I attempted a conversation, it went similar to
"Who are your best friends?"
"Three of my best friends are girls"
"Do you like them?"
"I never used to like her but now I do"
"Are you going to date her?"
"I want to."
"Thanks for letting me know that after I let you put your penis in me"
And then he continued texting his friend and fell asleep, contented. After he just used his ex girlfriend like I don't have feelings, like we didn't date for over a year. Dickwad.
Well I do not hate my ex; it has only been a couple of days since we broke up. We were together 6 years and very invested into one another. He had two kids that I cared and loved for as they were my own. It was time for us time for us to break up because we both were not happy, he has a lot of personal issues he has to work out for himself and I am finally ready to stop taking care of him and his kids and work on myself for once. I am 27 and ready for change. I still love him and am very heartbroken and probably would run back to him if he asked. Now why I am p*ssed
I hate that for some reason this break up is a lot easier for him. He is hanging out with old frieds that he hasn't seen in 10 years and is talking to to a GIRL...which he states is just a friend. F**** that WTF, how can he do this already and it was only 4 days ago when I started this stupid mess and told him that I was leaving if he couldn't wake up and start treating me better. How is is that my stomach is killing, I can't, eat or sleep, my heart feels like it was physically pulled from chest and torn into pieces and he is apparently ok.
This is the best post ever! Why didn't I think of it?
I hate you B...no idea how to make a girl have an orgasm. Little penis, self-centered, lying, cheating, f-tard. Cheating on me with a stripper (who is my friend now--we both kicked you to the curb), marrying that other girl you were with while you were with me. Glad your marriage worked out so well--she's a crack-wh*re who sells it for rock now and lost all your kids (who probably aren’t yours in the first place) while you were in jail--ain't that karma a b*tch?
I hate you T….The only thing that you were good at was the sex (only reason I stuck around for so long). Even that lost its appeal when you started smoking CRACK (and I thought that you were cheating on me was the reason you couldn’t get it up). Thanks for all the letters from PRISON, really helped me to get over you.
I really hate you C….cheating on your WIFE to be with me! Telling me anything to keep me around…taking full on advantage of me while I was vulnerable and you KNEW it! I’m sorry she doesn’t give it to you like you like and seems crazy all the time (maybe you are the reason). Now she’s gone and I’m gone and you are a sad little lonely soul with no one to love. How’s that working out for ya?
J….go ahead, go back to the two-timing wh*re who left you for another woman. It’s been 10 years, dude, and you are still carrying all this baggage around? No wonder the last girl left you. She couldn’t compete with all the constant rambling of how your girl never gave you any, left you for a woman, said it was your fault that she lost the baby, and blah, blah, blah….freaking move on, dude! Hope it all works out for ya…maybe this time she’ll leave you for a man instead. Oh, and one more thing, stop saying you are sorry when you come too soon (before I get off) and learn some self-control! All that meat and no idea how to use it….such a shame.
And to all the ones I missed, Karma is a B*tch!
WOW….very refreshing! Thanks!
I hate my ex boyfriend. he is a piece of sh*t with too many mummy issues! its not my fricking problem if your mother should never of had children and spend your entire childhood saying abusive sh*t and just being a stuck up selfish dumb bitch! it does not give you the right to steal my money use me and verbally abuse me for 3 years and then hide behind that bitch of a mother when I want my fricking money back. you are full of sh*t and I hope karma fricking rips off your head! everything you ever did was bullsh*t...do you know what? your not that cool do wanna know why people hang around you? because they forget your there! you are not orginal or jesus you are just some screwed up little kid that is too sh*t scared to actually look yourself in the mirror and deal with your sh*t! everyone is mature enough to get on with their lives. BE A FRICKING MAN INSTEAD OF SOME KINDA OF BULLSHIT SPONGE! YOU KNOW IF YOU DO THE SAME SHIT TO ENOUGH PEOPLE YOUR GOING TO END UP IN JAIL. I HOPE YOU ARE NEVER HAPPY AND YOU NEVER FIND LOVE. PS NEVER HAVE CHILDREN BECAUSE YOU WOULD BE A FRICKING TERRIBLE FATHER!
I hate all my g/fs, first the one back in 8th grade cheated on me with my friend in my own room, and when me and him fought I kicked his ass and we never spoke again. I then moved on and started dating this girl that we had a very physical relationship. 1 month passed and her parents caught us. I even went over to apologies putting myself through hell just to see her again for my b-day. A month past she iming me I love you and etc.. Birthday arrives and when I see her she simply says we can no longer date. For that whole month she had another guy on the side and waited till my b-day to screw with me. She even posted on her xanga at the time if you need help dumping a boyfriend and girlfriend ask me, I have all the advice! =) Such a b*tch... 3 weeks later she asked if we could screw because she missed me only in that way. I have other stories to tell that are far worst -.-
The last serious relationship I was in, was with a girl named Heather. We dated for about 8 months. Everything seemed fine for a while but apparently it wasn't
About 6 months in, she went to a bar one night where she got plastered and ended up going home with a guy she didn't even know. They had sex and she apparently liked what was going on a lot so she kept it going with him.
On Valentines Day, she called me up on the phone and confessed to me about what happened. She said she "still wanted to be friends" however. Obviously this wasn't happening because I now hated her with every fiber of my being. She told me I was "being immature and childish" because I couldn't put what happened behind us so that we could be friends.
I HATE MY EX. Because not only did he stalk/chase me for 2 full months and made me fall for him, he then dumps me on my ass after 3 months of dating so he can chase the hot new ass at his work. I HATE HIM MORE NOW because I can't get rid of the feelings I had for him and now that I see him everyday in school it EFFS me up. I want to kiss him and slap him all at the same time. AND OF COURSE he's just SO EFFING HAPPY NOW dating that cheap piece of ass and pretending like I don't and never did exist. GO TO HELL YOU SAD, PATHETIC EXCUSE FOR A MAN. I HOPE THAT SKANK TWO TIMES YOU JUST LIKE YOU DID TO ME. KARMA's A B*TCH.
TIME TO GET OVER HIM! I've only had one ex boyfriend and he's waaaay too unstable. he's a great guy but he has this tendency to avoid me for 3 weeks to one month at a time every time we are in contact (again). He has depression but I still end up hurt and that's not fair. He's not doing anything about it either. He could get help. It sucks because I've been totally thinking about his feelings for two years but does he ever think about mine? Does he care about me as much as I care about him? NO! I deserve better (now I realize). He'll just be missing out. He was the one who kept breaking up and taking me for granted. I cared. I wanted to be involved. I decided to end our friendship because things just build up over time. OH WELL!
well I used to think I hated an ex. well after many years of acting like each other was non existant we learned how to forgive eachother. yea we really did give each other excuses to hate each other for life. but one day she txt me and well ever since then we have been at peice. yea we don't talk much we don't hang out all the time but at least I can now look at her without distaste in my mind.
what I'm trying to say is sometimes people do bad rotten things to you make you regret ever being with them but really what you need to do is forgive them and take what you learned and apply and learn how not to fall for that same trap. learn from your past don't dwell on it. use it to make better your judgment for the future and make your like a truly wonderful one with as few regrets as you can.
I LOVE YOU FOR THIS! hahahaha
i "strongly dislike" that idiot because today's my f****** birthday and today's the day that he decided to get me jealous with some other doufous because he TOLD ME that he didn't want a girlfriend and yet he's got that s... behind him and he's leading her on and UGH I don't know if they're going out or they're just trying to get me jealous but it sucks either way because I dumped him but it wasn't so much because I wanted to and he didn't even freaking text me a little pathetic happy birthday! THAT PRICK!
ah... so many words, so many keys.. so small little fingers... ahahaha THANK YOU! :D
I have good reason to "hate" my ex but in the end just the idea of having that much emotion of any kind for someone who was less than honorable doesn't work for me. What do they say, there is a fine line between love and hate. This would be an example of that. Even strongly disliking someone is too close to the strength of loving someone. So I prefer to mildly recognize my ex was a turkey, lol, but then again he brought a lot to my life that I wouldn't have had without him that I continue to enjoy now, like my love of international travel.
I can't stand my ex. Went out with him for over 4 years and I don't know what was going through my head because all we did was fight and argue. The first couple of years he was really sweet and the perfect boyfriend. At the end of the relationship though, he basically blamed ME for my dad abusing me, told me I needed to make him WANT to see me and broke up with me through a phone call and said if I had tried harder, this wouldn't have happened. Oh and he texted me he wasn't in love with me anymore. Now I hear he's going out with this girl we used to hang out with all the time who lives 3 blocks away from me. its been a year and half and for some reason I still can't forget how he treated me and its affected how my dating life because I keep thinking that all guys are complete jerks.
well if that's for ranting about exs yeaaa count me in
my very last ex : he's a lair, cheater, manipulator, loves attention, horrible mood swings, very self absorbed, so selfish, verbally and emotionally abusive
and to top it off he's 24 in a minimum wage job and works only 15-18 hours a week and still living with parents with no intentions of moving out any time within 3-4 years more
where the hell was my mind back then I don't know but oh well he's an ex now =)
One of my exs, cheated on me with multiple guys, broke up with me, then months later, every time she would see me, I was "stalking" her. Even if she was walking from her car in to a store and she saw me driving through town (even if I didn't even see her) she would be on the phone to friends saying I was following her. Crazy fat F*ing bitch! Another ex..I helped her get out of an abusive living condition..."I" was THE reason she got out of there because she was too scared to do or anything. Not even 24 hours later, she's living with her friend, and her friend's bf...and she's already bangin' one of the boyfriend's friends! Wtf?! lol. Whatever...worthless pieces of sh*t they are. =)
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