Most Helpful Guy
I can bet you he is or was already talking to another girl living in another state. he's gone girl, so here's what you do, continue with your weight loss journey, get really fucking hot and start dating a guy 10x better looking than him. post that shit all over your fucking social media.
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Most Helpful Girl
Please please listen to me. Im overweight and by far more than you. I have an amazing boyfriend who loves me and treats me with respect. he's not the only boyfriend i have ever had. I've had 5, the first one made a comment to me about my weight in the throws of passion and he was history the next day, because i won't tolerate it. After that, i have dated and never once had anyone disrespect me not even in a heated argument when tempers say all sorts. My point is, be yourself, be confident and men will love you for your confidence and happy nature regardless of your weight because they find it sexy. The ones who dont appreciate your fuller figure can go find someone they prefer and it should be no loss to you. Love and respect is what you need and you will never find it in this guy. Please trust me. He is immature and will never treat you with respect wether you are slim OR curvy. he's just that type of guy. Let him go and be another girls headache, not yours. 2 years from now you will look back on the initial heartache you felt and be relieved you let him go. When i dumped my first boyfriend it hurt a lot, it wasn't easy. But my pride wouldn't let me take him back, i knew he would never make me happy. I think deep down you know this too. Its just the hurt making you want to cave in. DONT CAVE IN. You will be surprised how being strong about this makes you more confident. Now, regarding the weightloss, i am so pleased for you. I've been overweight since i was 3. Im 40 now, I've never managed it. The fact you have lost so much already tells me you are strong willed enough to get through this. Dont loose weight for him though, he's not worth the comitment. Loose the weight for yourself, to feel healthier and happier if thats what you want to do. You seem a lovely person with a lot to offer the right guy. he's out there, and he won't be the only guy interested in you either. I didn't loose any weight for my first boyfriend, i just sent him on his way. 3 months later i met a gorgeous italian guy who idolised me, we were out one night and a friend pointed out his ex girlfriend. She was slim and pretty. He chose to date me for me, and never tried to change me. We also bumped into my ex, who to my dismay was gutted id found someone else, yet i hadn't lost any weight. But i had moved on to better and you will too. Good luck hun and remember! never accept a man whos not good enough for you, otherwise you pave the way to a very unhappy life, and life is too short for that x