we dated for 3 months and then he said he doesn't feel attracted to me anymore. i am loosing weight but i haven't seen him since i started my weightloss journey i lost about 12 lbs till now. i started 2 weeks ago. He broke up with me last week. It hit my confidence really bad. i even tried to talk to him about working it out but he just doesn't want me anymore. he said he doesn't feel the attraction anymore. he lives in another state. i dont know what to do? this is killing me inside. should i delete him off my fb? drop all the contact. we were supposed to see each other in August and thats when i planned to surprise him with my new body shape and size. please someone help me. he was very rude to me when he broke it off with me over the phone... what do i do? i want to prove him wrong and show him that i can lose weight and be fabulous as well.. a part of me really wants him bad but the other part of me is shocked at this behavior of his because he doesn't value my personality. i m so broken right now. i need major help:( i want to show it to him once i lose weight show him what he missed out on. do i remove him from my fb friends list? what will make him come back to me?
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Delete him on Facebook and block him if you think you're going to have a hard time preventing yourself from contacting him. Drop all contact.
Listen to me and listen well: you do not need people in your life who prey on your insecurities in order to make you feel worse. A boyfriend should not be pressuring you to lose weight but instead support you when you make that decision of your own accord. Do NOT get back together with him under ANY circumstances. I don't care if he begs on his knees in the pouring rain - you do NOT need someone in your life who makes you feel like shit on purpose.
So you continue on your weight loss journey because it's something that YOU want to do for YOURSELF and not because it will make him want you back.2