I deleted and blocked him from messages on FB, and I also blocked him from my phone. I cannot be tempted to reach out to him to try to convince him what he gave up on. He has always called it "blah blah blah". I know it's his choice and his loss. So why do I feel guilty? I know that cutting all ties is the best way, but deep down I feel like I need to leave some way for him to contact me. For some reason I feel he will. I always felt we had potential to be awesome together, especially only 4 months in, still getting to know each other. He has so many good qualities, he just didn't want to make the effort to work at it. Do guys ever think about this when they've been away from that person for a while and realize it was all worth it?
Well we are almost 2 months in and we have been going strong. A month after I posted this, we slowly started to chip away at what was keeping him from opening up and getting closer. It took a lot of patience and understanding, and we are so much closer and more relaxed than ever before. Thank you all for your feedback <3
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I do believe that after time a person realizes what they had (if what they had was truly a "good thing" for them). But I also believe that people don't just change. They'll make promises to be different and at first they will be, but as time goes on they will settle back into their same old ways. You have to accept that he is just a certain way and decide to either accept and love him despite it, or move on.
Good luck hun!1