"I hope all is well and you're planning a fun weekend. I know you've moved on and I'm getting better at doing the same. By sending this, it's not my intent to push you away further; my conscious/therapist compelled me to write this, whether it's right or wrong.
I want to say this upfront in case you quit reading. I never ever ever in my life would've let you down in any way, judged you, betrayed you or hurt you in any way, shape or form; even during the worst of times. I was there for you then, and I'm nothing if not loyal, so know that I'm here for you now if you need someone to talk to.
With that said, regardless if you didn't want to be with me, I've never in my life been as crushed, hurt or confused by the way you left me. It felt as if I never existed to you. I let very few people into my 'inner circle' in terms of trust and openness for this exact reason.
dated for 6 months. The day after receiving a kiss pic via text, she dumped me cold by phone with no reasons other than its her choice, said when it ends it ends. 2 weeks after separation texts that she was really enjoying being together. first time she said anything about relationship to me. then she erased me from her life completely immediately, blocking everything but email. reaches out again but ignores my reply, i asked for honesty not confusion; haven't heard from her in 3 weeks. i sent this 2 weeks after her last email ignore and haven't heard from her. i know for fact she's not dating anyone else.
Did i do the right thing, im one for positivity and i loved this girl
Reaction if this was your ex, after you dumlrd him for no reason
why push/pull communication and hope then to go ignored?
since breaking up, she's changed social profile pics every week for attention, posted odd things.. when together she never changed pics and posted happy positive things... is she hurting but just not wanting me to know?
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Reading that was painful, reminded me of what my disgusting ex boyfriend did to me. Found some chick at work who gave him attention, and out of the blue one day texted me that he can't be with me because he has another girl and that he already asked her out to lunch. Mind you, this was after a 2 year relationship with him. Repulsive. I'm glad you wrote that with the kindness and respect that you did. I'd send it (hopefully it helps her wake up to reality), which you did, and then never contact her ever, ever again. You're way better and worth more than she can ever appreciate. I doubt she's hurting, she seems out of touch with real life.
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