Deleting text messages? Is this a red flag?
What Guys Said 26
Does it even matter? If you cannot find it in yourself to trust him you have a serious problem already. You are part of the problem with your stalker attitude, do not check his phone.
It can be completely innocent flirting, knowing you would overreact he deleted the messages. Yet still he might cheat on you, but like I said does it even matter if you can only live with distrust? I say dump him or learn to trust him.
Well I will not just lie and show sympathy to you but you really need to work on trust issues and may be those were important messages but knowing,
How you will think about it?
he just spares him the trouble and simply del them
Few guys like it clean , no unnecessary mails texts or call details
Even single people do it too..
But in your case
If he don't have a lock and deleting texts
Something is definitely cooking
Ur it may be him personal way of preventing you from suspecting him
You better keep eyes open
And talk him into it indirectly...
I would think so, considering it's only when he exchanges messages with this woman. If he didn't care if you saw them, why would he delete them? He's definitely doing something that he doesn't want you to know about. I would be upfront and tell him to come clean. If he has nothing to hide, he'll probably not mind you check with the phone company about these texts.
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My ex wife did this as well. She was having an affair. Tread carefully!!
Or maybe he is just a normal human being who deletes all messages because they don't like to have clutter on their phone?
Yeah , if i had a girlfriend or wife did that to me i would think it was a red flag and would wonder why she be doing that I think he owes you a reason on why he does that with his text messages or deletes phone numbers.
If it seems to be only a certain one then yes.
You should consider marrying or dating guys that are loyal if you don't like getting cheated on, in the future.
No i delete grpup messages it too much on my phone after while
Maybe he knows your looyat his shit guys say weird things we look up weird things maybe don't be so insecure
I dont think there should be secrets between married people. Red flag to me. But nevertheless I wish you the best ❤️
Red flag red flag red flag red flag red flag
Yess it's red flag take measure before it goes out of hands
definitely a red flag.
Huge Red Flag
Nah nothing to worry about
don't let the phone, run your life
What Girls Said 14
Obviously he is hiding something if he's continuously texting her and deleting the text messages. Do you have an iPad or mac? Could enable the texts to go through that- they don't delete on them even if you delete from your phone, you have to manually delete them on the other devices. What an ass.
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Or he is just clearing space on his phone and knows there is nothing important in those conversations.
Check his call log on your phone bill. You can see if he's deleting all messages or just the one person.
If he deletes all of his messages regularly then that not a big deal. Some people hate the clutter in their inbox. Now if it is convos with a specific person and no one else then yeah I would say that's a red flag. If his behaviour with that one person doesn't match his behaviour with the others then obviously there's something going on, whether it be cheating or him complaining to her or just anything he wouldn't want you knowing. Mention it to him and ask why he deletes them? People want to talk about how you need to just have more trust, but if he is giving you reasons not to trust him then that's understandable. Plus people will say you're over thinking and just need to trust him, but on the other side of the coin if he was cheating or hiding things from you and you just blindly trusted him they would all say you were an idiot for that too so don't listen to them.
Definitely a red flag when you have to worry and question if you should be concerned or not :/
I like to delete my text messages, phone call history, and pretty much anything else. For me though it's because I have OCD and it makes me feel better.
For the guy your with this does not sound like what he is doing for he keeps your messages, if he was doing like myself he would delete everything. I think asking him might help, don't come at him like you think he is cheating. Maybe just say like you are curious as to why he deletes only her messages or something. If you don't come off as though you think he is cheating you will either get the truth or you will probably be able to tell if is is a lie. For he will most likely try to co. e up with a story rather than say 'why, don't you trust me?'
Yes! Red alert! Abort! Abort!!!
Big red flag.
RED FUCKING FLAG
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