My ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend and it hurts like hell.

My ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend and it hurts like hell. I don't know what to do. I feel everything that we once had together never existed in the 4 year I was with him. He recreated poses in photos he put up on the net and they were in the same style as when I first met him. We did have a bad break up but remained in contact. This new girl is beautiful looking and has same styling as me dress wise. He meets with her reg and they are in a choir together, so they have to meet up. From the little I know of her, she always says she has pulling power and makes cheeky remarks..etc..

I am feel like I am losing him all over again, its been really hard for me to let go as he was so different to my ex and was a damn nicer person and he made my life different. I am crying writing this and don't know what to do?


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  • Hi, I feel for you and I'm so sorry you are going through this, how long is it since you broke up?I know its so hard but don't be looking at pictures of them together on facebook or MySpace etc,it will only make you feel worse. I'm only after going through a break up myself and I know that every time you think of him you remember the great times you had together but think of some of the bad times and this right now is a bad time, if the guy truly loved you I don't think he would have entered into a relationship some may say its a rebound but in my opinion I'm still madly in love with my ex and no way could I enter a relationship, like you love him and you could not enter a new relationship so if he can the ask yourself does he love you for real!?

    We men can be heartless at times I know what your saying about the poses cause I put pictures up of me and a girl doing the same poses as my ex on purpose just to get back at her for hurting me but no way would I enter a relationship cause I still love her. It is this guys loss the while will be tough for you but karma will kick him in the nuts in afew months time when they are broken up and you are back to yourself having the time of your life don't lose hope in yourself !

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    • Thanks for replying. I appreciate your advice. I had a really bad day yesterday. You're right that if he still loved me, he would not have entered into another relationship. To me, him recreating those poses from about the time I met him, only makes me feel like he wants the years back I spent with him and that really hurts thinking that is why he did that. I am taking each day as it comes, it is all I can do. I guess. I really loved and cared for him.

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  • I deleted the texts within a week. And then after she text me last week to thank me for the clothes I brought over I just deleted it strait away. Just do it. It will make you feel sad for a little bit but after that it gets easier. You don't need to hold on to something that isn't there any more.

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  • Who broke up with who in the first place? Staying in contact after a breakup only usually helps one person to get over the other. The fact that he has a new girlfriend and still stays in contact with you means that he's getting the best of both worlds.

    If your feeling this bad about the whole situation you really need to try not being in contact with him for a while. Let him know that you feel like you loosing him all over again and that you need some time apart with no contact at all to help you through this.

    Having him added on social networking sites will only make you feel worse believe me!

    Me and my ex broke up a month ago and I still want to get back with her but I wouldn't have been doing myself any favours if I kept her as a friend on facebook. I deleted her strait away and all the texts I had from her on my phone. It doesn't make the pain go away but it makes sure it doesn't get any worse!

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    • He broke up with me. You are right about staying in contact with my ex, but it really is hard for me as I still love him, but I know he doesn't love me since he has a new girlfriend. How were you able to delete texts and stuff, cos I haven't yet as I am finding it really tough to do that. I do not know if I should tell him I feel like I am losing him all over again, but I do agree with the time apart, but it is going to be the pits, I know it. Just wish I could turn back time

  • I have been here before I dated a girl from the Philippines for about a year things didn't work out I had sleepless nights pretty much was in tears most of the time yes us men cry lol I was listening to depressing music all the time trying to take my mind off the break up I even tried to message her and tell her I'm sorry tried to get back with her but she just ignored me. I even thought of suicide but I prayed to God and asked for help and he healed my heart it just took time. So just give yourself time don't look at pictures of him that will only make things worse don't even think about him. Get on with your life get on with your career another man will come along one who is just right for you :)

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    Whenever I think about this, I feel this pang of hurt in my heart and stomach. I agree with one of the other comments. If a man TRULY loved/loves you, he would be heartbroken EVEN IF he broke up with you. and NO WAY could he go into another relationship. I do not think my ex ever truly loved me. and yes, this hurts even more to think that, but I believe its the truth. I have a guy friend who broke up with his girl. its been 3 mths for them and he is still hearbroken! that my friend, is TRUE LOVE. so, sorry for the long comment. I worry if I'll ever be able to put this behind me and learn to forget and learn to stop thinking about it. so how are you? have you gotten over it and passed it?

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  • let him go and then go and find someone new... obviously he has let you go...

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    • U are not alone! I'm going through the same! He's been seeing her for two months weve been broken up for 3 and together for 5 years! He still wants to b friends I keep telling him no it hurts too much. He gets upset goes away for couple days and texts me again. He's upset cause I cut my hair got a tattoo and wear makeup now. He chose her and continues to chose her. Be strong make him miss you maybe then he will deceide. Keep smiling things will get better. I'm hoping for the same!

    • I am Alice Paul by name. Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my husband after one (1) years of marriage just because another woman had a spell on him and he left me and my kid to suffer. one day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster on this address drmomoduspelltemple@yahoo. com, have help a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a woman had a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 2 days that i will have my husband back. i believed him and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my husband. Thanks for Dr. DR MOMODU. His email: drmomoduspelltemple@hotmail. com

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