Guys, So, when I broke up with my Boyfriend two weeks ago I didn't expect him to not want to be my friend afterwards. What now? (Page 2)

BahamianBombshell · 2018-04-04T14:20:22Z

Two weeks ago I broke up with my Boyfriend. He wasn't a very romantic guy and I had to beg him to do simple Boyfriend tasks that would probably come naturally to others. I think there are better suited men for me to date and better suited women for him. He's a good looking guy, so I know he'll get another girl in no time. I told him that lately I feel really independent and for the first time in my life I don't feel the need to have a boyfriend. I haven't seen him in a week, and I felt OK. I shouldn't feel OK with not seeing my boyfriend. Our relationship is missing the excitement it had in the beginning. I value his friendship and I don't want to lose it but I understand that after this he may not want to be my friend for a while. However, I was NOT prepared for the result of breaking up with someone who turned out to be MY BEST FRIEND. He expressed no emotion when I broke up with him! Oh my God! He won't talk to meee. I'm so depressed! Breaking up with my Boyfriend revealed how few friends I actually have. I feel SO LONELY! It's not loneliness in the MEN department, its loneliness in the FRIEND department. Relationship or no relationship I get attention from guys, but so few girl friends! My mom warned me not to break up with him until graduation so I don't have to see him at school afterwards, but even though he's not always the most affectionate guy, I know he LOVED me and it would have been wrong to continue the relationship if I don't want to be with him anymore and then schedule an exact time and date to dump him. How much time do I need to give him to initiate any reconcile of friendship with my Ex? We would have made it to one year this month, he was my companion and our relationship was so real and now he won't even talk to meeee. :(

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LegateLanius Follow
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Unfortunately, you broke up with him. It wasn't mutual and he likely doesn't want anything to do with you anymore. I know its hard, but you need to move on. Make new friends.

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HereIbe Follow
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You made your bed, you like in it. You get what you chose. You THREW HIM AWAY, now you get to suffer for it. I don't see anything wrong with that.

You threw him away. You treated him like trash. You get what you deserve. He will find another woman who won't treat him like trash and throw him away. You can rely on that.

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- BahamianBombshell
  
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  harsh
  
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- HereIbe
  
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  You earned harsh. You threw him away and expected him to be happy with it. You showed him that you thought he was disposable. You deserve your loneliness. YOU EARNED IT!
  
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- BahamianBombshell
  
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  So what am I suppose to do now? I asked you for a solution and you’re just beating me up over being true to myself and my feelings.
  
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harleydude202 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 37

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If he really did love you, then you will not be friends with your ex

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Steve37 Follow
Yoda Age: 34

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You broke up with him... you hurt him. Why is it a surprise he doesn't want to be your friend?

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Master Age: 49

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You’re never going to be friends. Move forward.

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Xper 3 Age: 22

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Ofc he doesn't want to be your friend dumbass 💁

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freestar Follow
Xper 2 Age: 33

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never be with your ex again never

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