He left me because I did not not answer him for the whole day. I was mad at him. After the break up we’ve been in contact for two weeks then he started withdrawing so I stopped messaging. He doesn’t message me either but he’s always sending me streaks even though I already lost the streak with him. Also when I uploaded a picture on Ig he liked it.
What’s up with him? When I am done with someone I avoid any interactions with them. Usually delete them... why is he doing the opposite, like what’s the point?
People need space. You needed it to over come your anger. He refused to respect this and dumped you. Do what you want but wouldn't a man who cares about you give you space and a day to sort something out? Yup! I'm right😄
So we know he doesn't care to give you space because he simply doesn't respect yours. Further proof is he isn't respecting yours now during break up! So sure, maybe he wants to get back together, but he's the same person who dumped you and sounds like he has not changed one bit. If he does it again you blame you because you knew what was in store when you reentered the relationship.
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I doubt he’s trynna get back together because streaks are sent to others too not just me, so if I get anything from him that is not directly meant just for me I don’t consider it special at all. I’m confused why he’s playing this stupid games... tbh
Guys tend to try and keep people they've slept with around in the hopes it'll happen again. Once he starts seeing someone he'll probably stop for a while, but he'll keep coming back anytime he's not happy.
Its a guise. He's sending you feelers. In the olden days we'd post fb pics of fun stuff we were doing ad nauseum in hopes ex would see how great life was without them. Same idea. I agree w other poster. He wants to keep you around but not nessecarily in a healthy lasting relationship way.
To little to go on! Why was you mad at him, what was your involvement in it, how did you react and also the opposite way what he. What was it he did want a answer on.
Have seen enough relationship mess there the one that did appear to be the one doing something fucked up that wasn't when the whole thing come forward.
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Well he came to me and we kinda got into small fight, he was rude.. when he went home he was texting me all the time and he said he's sorry for acting stupid and he still wants me. He was calling me and everything but I just wanted my free time. I wasn’t talking to anyone I just wanted to be alone to enjoy myself with music and relax. I was confused about him... then when I texted him the next day he called it off said that me ignoring him made him see the same in me that he saw in his ex. I was trying to work it out but he didn’t want. He said he needs time and we are back on zero. By his actions I could still see that he likes me a lot but he seemed scared to trust. We were still in contact for next 2 weeks then he started withdrawing so I withdrew aswell but he’s been still sending me streaks, liking my pics, commenting to my instagram stories trynna be funny... I just ignore everything unless he’s gonna text me someday.
The question is if he is after some signs you aren't like the ex like you have remorse and are sorry or what he now is after, or that he is slowly fading you out in that emotional way you both had.
Personal would I move on with life slowly to begine to the worst flames of feelings cooled down without hanging around like a passive one that waits for thing's to happen, than begin to be open to see someone else.
If you both tends to fight when it becomes some argument or disagreement it is not worth it in the long run, life is to short. better to be open for people that doesn't begin to fight or have severe communication skills in that mix that also can't let the other one cooldown for a while to workout what did happen without having anger in the system. I recommend next time that you say as it is that you need to reflect and calm down to make the best of it for you both if it should work and that you don't want to argue when upset. and so on...
Well yeah I apologized and told him the real view of it why I done it etc etc soo now it’s his turn to analyse it and decide whats best for him but seriously I don’t know many people who’d break up just because you don’t answer to them in a day. He could have asked hey whats wrong, oh maybe she's upset that I was rude to her, and not just like oh she done this she's like my ex bye.
Its funny how me and my friend uploaded something and he commented on her story AND mine. (Attention seeker) and like he saw my story a day ago but he replied a day after which means he checked it again.
Does it really matters what he wants? I hate to say something that puts more distants between two people and dislike all you want but i think a guy needs to learn not to behave like a 3 yo girl. If you asking for giving him a second chance i say NO, it'll turn to a toxic as hell relationship.
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Lol no he’s not making me any kind of special if he’s just sending streaks. Streaks are usually sent to several people not just one particularly.. I am just confused why does he do that tbh.. If he wanted more I am sure he’d message me... but yea can’t be friends with someone I had feelings for, I’ll just never see them in no-romantic way
It saide like their is still feeling on both side. You have mentioned that you usually delete them off all social media and know asking the question this question to see if others can tell you that their are feelings still. The saying goes "you don't know what you have till its gone" which is also a good song.
It seems to be a case of pride that he did nothing wrong and rather send some reminder that he is thinking of you but doesn't want to admit that he has done.
He keeps on sending it since the break up but now even more so I doubt it’s a reminder cause then he’d take me back. It’s funny how now he also comments to my story and my bestie’s..
If you have no more feelings for him and really bothered by all the likes and stuff then simple delete or block him and tell your bestie to do the same. To be honest I truly think that you still have feelings for him or you would have done this the moment you broke up. You remind be of a girls that I need online. We ended up going out on a date and the whole time she was talking about her ex like where he lives, works, and where they used to spend time together. Thats then I knew that she is not over him despite the constant denial.
Well I’m somewhere in between. I would still be with him if he came around as we had a nice time together but if he doesn’t come I wouldn’t die. There’s plenty of others and as I’m very pretty I get a lot of attention anyways
If your so pretty as you say then you got more guys around you then anything. So why bother with one and why post a question like this if your so called pretty that you can find another man in seconds. Just remember that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Think hard on that.
I can get a guy anytime thats true but if I invest in someone then I want to make sure I’ve tried anything to save the relationship and if it still didn’t work then I’d move to the next one
What are streaks? Apologies... I don't use social media platforms. GaG is more like a forum more than anything else. Unless you meant a string of messages... I have no idea what that means.
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When you and the other person exchanges picture on snapchat daily. Higher the number is, more days in a row you sent it. It became really popular. I broke our streak by not sending him a pic since Wednesday but he’s been still sending it to me.. Usually when you send a streak you don’t just send it to one person but to multiple people (depends on how many people you’re keeping the streak with and you manually select who you want to send it to and who not)
by the way I am not sending him streaks anymore as it’s pointless and also his streaks aren’t sent just to me but to everyone he keeps streaks with. I haven’t sent any streak to him since Wednesday.
Lol too bad for him. I ain't gonna come to him neither cause I am worthy. After the breakup I tried so much to get him back so my job here is finished. If he wants he can come if he can't then he can settle for lower as no cool girl like me gon like him lmao
When you and the other person exchanges picture on snapchat daily. Higher the number is, more days in a row you sent it. It became really popular. I broke our streak by not sending him a pic since Wednesday but he’s been still sending it to me.. Usually when you send a streak you don’t just send it to one person but to multiple people (depends on how many people you’re keeping the streak with and you manually select who you want to send it to and who not)
Okay, I never used snapchat and dont value it that much. I dont consider weird stats from an app as communication, so do not care about what he is doing.
I guess so but I am not interacting with him in any kind of way. Streaks that he sends are anyways sent to other people as well so it’s not just me... it’s just strange why I’m still included even though I already broke our streak by not sending anything to him since Wednesday and I’m his ex...
Yeah I am not responding, I just find it interesting... like if you want to be done with someone, you are done fully not half way. There is no way I can be friends with someone I once had something with... I will always see them in a romantic way...
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