I have given her as many reasons I can think of. She knows I care alt about her. I've saved her in 2 major situations. I've been there for her. She said she can date anyone. We started out as friends and slowly I started liking her. I really do love her and care about her. I feel she is perfect for me I just can't think of a way to prove it or a way to knock her off her feet. PLEASE HELP Me :(
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okay dude with all respect if you've save or helped her in the past fine, you did the white knight thing and she's seen that. Don't hold it over her head when you want to get the princess, every girl likes a guy to be there when they need them but they also want them to be humble enough to drop it afterward. if she can date anyone (from what you comented I doubt it) your trick is to show your the guy she's been looking for.
what she might not understand is why you slowly started liking her, most girls fall for a guy quickly, so she may be asking her self a lot of questions. "why didn't he like me before?" "did he save me because he likes me?" "was there something wrong with me before?" "what has changed to make him want more?" these are the kind of questions she wants you to answer when she asks "why do you want to date me?"
as for the games thing I'm guessing you've known each other some +6 months, she has already begun to understand how you work, at this point she'll she a trick coming unless you are really slick in your delivery, be genuine it will get you farther. as for the parents you've met them more than twice I assume, congrats that's as far as you'll get with them untill you get in a realationship with her focusing on them won't help you with her, especialy since they made her end the last realationship.
from the sounds of it she's just afraid to lose someone she trusts and someone who she knows will be there when she needs them. for most women having people like this is more valuble than gold.