Can anyone give me an opinion of this? My ex boyfriend just broke up with me after a year and a half because he says he doesn't have time for a relationship since he wants to devote all of his time to school (a very difficult major that takes up most of his time). He said he thinks I'm "awesome" and isn't interested in dating anyone else but this isn't the right time for him to be in a relationship but he might like to try again in the future. Also, we would fight all the time about how busy he is and how he doesn't put effort into the relationship and that stressed him out.
What are the chances of this guy missing me and coming back?
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I hate hate hate guys who do this.
But then again I'm a very patient person and I don't mind if he's busy very often. But for some reason these guys who are always busy get it in their heads that since they can't be there for you as much as they think is appropriate, they feel that they're not treating you right, or you deserve better, blah blah blah it's all b.s.
If you really care about him then it shouldn't matter. This same exact situation happened to me, we dated for a little while and then he broke up with me because he told me I deserved to be with someone who would be there for me more often (even though he also said he wouldn't like to see me be with anyone else)... but like I didn't care, I always enjoyed the time we did get to spend together and just yeah.
I kept showing him that and how much I cared and such, and we eventually got back together. I don't know what made him change his mind but I guess I got my point across through my actions and patience and stuff.
Hope that helps. If he does like you and you can be there for him, be patient, show him how well you guys go together etc., I'd say it's possible that you two could get back together.1