How to increase your chances of getting back with your ex girlfriend? (Page 2)

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In an ideal world, your ex girlfriend will call you. She'll be missing you, wanting you back, and phoning you to tell you what a huge mistake she made by breaking up. For any guy who's been dumped, this is your biggest fantasy. Unfortunately though, it's not going to go down that way... unless you take steps toward making it happen.Yes, it's true - there are definite ways to make your ex call you. Even if things look hopelessly lost right now, you screwed up big in past conversations, or she's not even taking your calls... somewhere out there is a magical combination of things you can do and plays you can make that will make your ex want to call you up. Or even better, need to call you.Getting Your Exgirlfriend To Call YouSo what's the magic formula for getting your ex to pick up the phone? Well, it'll be a little different for each situation, but a few things will always be the same: Need. Loneliness. Curiosity. These are the emotions you must instill into your ex in order to get her dialing your numbers. And the tricky part? You have to do it without her knowing that you did it. Which means you have to make some very subtle magic happen behind the scenes. To get your ex girlfriend interested enough to want to contact you again, you'll have to gingerly place those feelings in her mind without doing anything directly. Because as soon as you come off as trying to get her back with you, your cover is blown.Time & Space... and Why It's So Important to Reconcilation Breaking up is a tremendously difficult thing for most people, because the person who got dumped won't always be thinking rationally. It's easy to want to call your ex all the time, speak your mind, tell her what you're feeling and why it's important to keeping your relationship alive. The trouble is, when you do something like that you're not really taking your ex's feelings into consideration. You're being selfish in a way: by opening the floodgates of your heart and soul, you're literally drowning her with stuff she probably doesn't want to hear right now. Because in the days and weeks after breaking up with you, your ex just wants some space.90% of men won't give their girlfriends that space, and that's why they'll fail. They'll be thinking and acting on the fly, and because of that, these women get even more annoyed. As the men push for answers and try to convince their ex's to reverse the break up, they're shoving their girlfriends that much further away. And what's worse, these women don't miss their ex boyfriends one bit. Instead of sitting alone thinking about their decision, worrying if they made the right one, and missing the guys they broke up with... they're fending off unwanted calls and emails of their own.Putting Your Ex In The Mood To Hear From You Creating an environment in which your ex girlfriend misses and thinks about you is crucial to winning her back. This is as easy as leaving her completely alone. She wanted a break up? No problem. She wants som

Anonymous · Answer

I need help and answer!!! Me and my ex was together for 3 years we lived together and we did almost every thing together. We was best friends We also have a baby girl together. But things started going down hill after life kicked in. I messed around on her which killed me so I ran back and told her. The she returned the favor and cheated on. Things kinda started looking better then I went to 3rd shift and became a lazy ass hole who took her for granted and was very mean all the time. Well one day she packed up and left. It's been 3 months now and she's already been in another relationship and cheated on the guy with me so he left her.. I've been blowing up her phone begging her to come back I've tried every trick in the book. We still see each other when we pass the kid off and there are hugs kisses and sometimes sex shared. She's clams she doesn't know what she wants right now and won't give me any answer can someone help me on what to do to get her back

Anonymous · Answer

I took my ex to her sisters house so she could visit, and not even a week later she broke up with me. Her sister claims it was all her idea. Acting like she talked my ex into this. 2 days after the break up she told me she missed me and wanted me to bring her back home this week so I agreed. The next day she had changed her mind, and told me not to talk to her again. She also started dating another guy that she has never even met 3 days after we broke up. I want to be with her and I've tried every way I know how to fix things but nothing has worked. Now she doesn't call me, doesn't text me and I'm worried that I will never be able to be with her again

Anonymous · Answer

so my girlfriend broke up with me 2 months ago, she told she was not emotional in love with me, i chased her for a few weeks then i completely cut of contact.

3 weeks later she is sending me flirtatious messages no one of what i have responded to in the same manner (but i have responded back), she also told me if she sees me within a week she will give in and will start to hug and kiss me, therefore its better if she sees me a week later.

I personally think that waiting a week or 2 weeks or even a month won't change her feelings towards me, can anyone give me an indication of what is going on i'm a little confused

KristenBrown · Answer

Nobody wants to be with a needy person. Pleading and being needy is unattractive and is only going to push your ex further away from you. It will only make them think that they made the right decision by breaking up with you. I have been a victim of such circumstance until i was referred to who did a spell for me and make my ex chasing and begging me to come back. He turned the table around to my favor and i am happy i used his spell to get what i desire the most without having to beg.

Anonymous · Answer

My ex boyfriend dumped me years ago, started dating another girl, DID THIS EXACT SCENARIO to me behind her back, and then fell off of the face of the earth. It made me want him back, sure, until I realized only sociopaths would do this...

If you love someone and want them back, just tell them. Don't pull this anonymous, i miss you, vague, mindgame, bullshit. Don't be a coward.

Disclosure · Answer

can i ask something i have a problem my GF broke up with me saying that i love her more than she love me and she can't Handel this , but she asked me to be her friend but i love her, i can't be her friend can this help me?

MistaIcedT · Answer

just respect boundaries and move on. Dont stalk or harass, it looks stupid and you'll end up having a restraining order on your record

Anonymous · Answer

I never begged any ex to come back. Never.  But I what I did want was CLOSURE. He nicer guy you are the less likely you will get that nowadays.

wwillw · Answer

Nah, respect the boundaries of other people and move on.

SeanDecepticon · Answer

There an ex for a reason. Keep it that way. Work on yourself and someone better will come along.

nick123456789 · Answer

I messed up my first phone call I tried keeping it short and now she went back to a idgaf attitude

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