What should you do when a girl tells you her problems? (Page 2)
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If she's talking, just listen. If you have well intended heartfelt advice to give then offer it to her, but don't try to stick your dick in her because you think she's vulnerable.
Advice is always a plus, but if you’re like me and never know what to say or how to help being held is what counts the most. A comforting hand on the back and saying it may not be okay now but I will be in the end. 🙃 in my opinion.
She considers you a friend. That's why she's telling you about her problems.
Yep and reading between the lines this guy likes her and he’s friend zoned.
She's probably looking for some advice or sympathy. Getting a guy's perspective on things is pretty helpful - and it doesn't necessarily mean she's flirting. :)
Don’t be rational 😂 girls hate that. They talk to girls more because guys have common sense and logic which will probably be right. Girls want you to choose their side regardless of the correct answer.
Hence why girls talk to girls.
I listen. I don't offer any advice (unless she asks). I just listen. Some women, or I SHOULD SAY, people in general, like to be heard and they like the person listening to empathize with them. So, I just listen.
well I tell my guy friends that for two things one was because I though they can see the guys perspective of thing and give me advice and the other one was because i needed someone to talk to and they were there to hear me,
Are you dating her? Did you just meet her? Are you attracted to her?
If you are not dating her but like her this is a very bad sign that you are friendzoned. Giving her free counseling will never get you in her pants. It will do the opposite. Tell her “I’m sorry to hear that” and ghost her asap.
If you are dating her just listen to her. She doesn’t want you to solve her problem. She just wants you to hear her out. She will like you for that.
I have this tendency to try to give advice. Apparently, that's more often not wanted. More often, in my experiences at least, she wants you just listen and hold her.
Just let us vent. No need for advice as we are emotional so it could be taken badly unless we ask for the advice.
I wouldn't tell my man my problem unless im very sure he can or know how to fix it.
Some issues are better to chat with my sister, my friend or my psychologist and id rather keep my man for the love departement.
You don’t really have to do anything, just listen snd show her that you care. Some comforting words and a hug goes a long way.
Just be real. Give advice , or just listen or share similar experiences. People need to stop being afraid of emotions it’s what makes us human
Unless she's your girlfriend, if a girls is doing this to you that means you are in the friend zone. What you should do is evaluate your situation and ask yourself who you really are in her eyes
If she's talking about her boyfriend and I'm interested I tell her very rudely to SHUT THE FUCK and go dump on your girlfriend. If you want to fuck to take your mind off of it, fine. If not, keep it moving.
Yep, he should just show some sympathy and give hugs and comforting words.
I try not to talk to men about my problems or complain to them unless they're going to come to my rescue. I don't talk to men to vent bc it's emasculating to them
It means you're like one of her girlfriends that she can go to. Not what you want to be.
It means she sees you as her friend. Don't read too much into it.
Yes listen and don't judge or try to offer a solution, more like give her a cuddle and wait for her to ask what should I or what would you do but wait for her to ask …….