I was dating this guy I met at my doctors office.From the beginning I had to make the move,I knew he liked me.Anytime I would come in the doctors office he would talk to me,crack jokes,always be the one scheduling my appointment even though there was other workers that could do it for me.And 1 day he was scheduling my appointment and he was totally caught flirting with me by his co-workers and turned bright red, so I just got ballsy and ask for his number which he quickly gave.We texted each other casually for the next week.But I noticed he wasn't really a good texter. I would text him and he wouldn't respond until days later, which I thought was interesting. But he always kinda had an excuse for it, like he was helping out a friend or sometimes none at all.So I just took it he was a bad texter which is okay, but I'm not a fan of talking on the phone.So I noticed this might be a problem. Anyways After 2 weeks or so of mildly texting each other I asked him why hasn't he asked me on a date.He said because I knew you would. I didn't know what he ment by that, but obviously he was right. He ended up asking me out and asked me to find the place, which I thought was weird but I did, and the day of out first date he almost stands me up because he couldn't get out of work. And this was 30 minutes before I was suppose to meet him for our date. But he didn't, & I met up with him at 7pm and we didn't leave the restaurant until 2am. We just enjoyed each others company.I must admit I wasn't really into him until our 3rd date.He's a little older than me, he's 32 I'm in my twenties so I wasn't use to dating older but I got over it after really getting to know him.He texted me later that week asking me out on a second date,I was kind of like okay whatever so I said yes, even though I wasn't 100% into him. Oh let me first inform you he's a divorcée with a 2 year old kid and lost pretty much everything in his divorce and is rebuilding his life, he's been separated for a year but divorced for 6months on paper.Okay so second date he asked me out I say okay,but than he never sets up a date..Until he sees me at the Dr's office,than he asks do I wanna met up tonight I said fine.Waited for him after I left the Dr's office than he texted he might not be able to meet up.I told him I'm always waiting for him. Than he calls me to take me out and says sorry. We go out eat everything is fine.Than I realize I really like him. We went home from our date called each other and decided to meet up again.It was awesome! He made me feel special.We had a couple more dates.But I started noticing every time we went out its because he saw me at the Dr's office or I texted him.Which was kinda not cool.We talked about it and he promised to meet in the middle with the calls and text. Our last date was Valentine's day it was awesome we made out a lot/ no sex we both told each other how much we liked one another.Than after that he stopped calling.I'm so depressed over this he lead me on with no closure
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Just to let everyone one know he asked me out again last night..and I said no. IF anything he will have to do a lot of chancing in order for me to go back out with him.lol Thanks all for your CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM!=)
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not the others who are just being lonely haters that just have nothing better to do than try to bring a person down to their level. Seriously to those people Get Lives! Stop reading about mine! XoXo muah =)
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