You’re 25 years old and already have 2 failed relationships with children from 2 different men? I’m sorry but that’s ridiculous. You need to get your shit together in life.
I'm not sure how it's a cop out. You're being honest with him about your situation. He sounds immature, I doubt he's thought about being a father like figure to two kids.
He’s just being insensitive, he basically thinks your lying and blowing him off, however he is too busy thinking about his hurt ego, doesn’t even realize you are for real.
Maybe he wanted something serious so probably backed off and probably you might not have his kid so for him to accept that would be difficult if he sees a future with you
In a way I think it is a cop out because they are being rude to you, Especially if the have been dating and flirting with you and wasting your time. Does anyone like wasting there time with someone?
All that matters is that you believe you are not ready. Since the guy thinks/says it is a "cop out" if you give in then he will know how easily he can manipulate you.
Tell him you need time to heal and you're not ready for anything serious and if he can't accept it then move on find somebody else when you're ready to
It usually -- 99% of the time -- is. But I totally understand where you're coming from with your particular situation, so I think in your case it's not.
Run. If he was the guy for you, he'd be more understanding that you can't jump headfirst into a new relationship. You have 2 children that should be your #1 focus. He should respect that.
Listen you have to do what best for you if your not ready then you not ready. If he's really into you he'll wait if not then you he was never really that into you
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You’re 25 years old and already have 2 failed relationships with children from 2 different men? I’m sorry but that’s ridiculous. You need to get your shit together in life.
Nah of course not. Its sometimes a cop out but it can be a legitimate reason not to go into something
Yeah it’s a cop out
not ready for something serious means “I enjoy fucking around with girl’s feelings and only care about myself”
he's being honest dont give sex if you want a relationship with that man
I'm not sure how it's a cop out. You're being honest with him about your situation. He sounds immature, I doubt he's thought about being a father like figure to two kids.
He’s just being insensitive, he basically thinks your lying and blowing him off, however he is too busy thinking about his hurt ego, doesn’t even realize you are for real.
Maybe he wanted something serious so probably backed off and probably you might not have his kid so for him to accept that would be difficult if he sees a future with you
In a way I think it is a cop out because they are being rude to you, Especially if the have been dating and flirting with you and wasting your time.
Does anyone like wasting there time with someone?
Don’t be coerced by someone else’s opinion on your life.
weird phrasing I don't get him. What he meant you ought whom I don't understand.
I don't know if its a cop out. Just see where is goes, u told him ahead of time so he can't be surprised if u change ur mind or w. E down the line
It's not for everyone. In your case I don't think it's a cop out
I've only been on one date ever, and she told me she wasn't ready for a commitment when I tried to set up a 2nd date.
Haven't dated since (but I want to!).
All that matters is that you believe you are not ready. Since the guy thinks/says it is a "cop out" if you give in then he will know how easily he can manipulate you.
Tell him you need time to heal and you're not ready for anything serious and if he can't accept it then move on find somebody else when you're ready to
It usually -- 99% of the time -- is. But I totally understand where you're coming from with your particular situation, so I think in your case it's not.
Yeah... in many cases it is a cop out. But, sometimes, its legit.
You dont take him seriously thats the problem here
^ he just didn't know how to articulate his feelings but thats what he meant ^
Run. If he was the guy for you, he'd be more understanding that you can't jump headfirst into a new relationship. You have 2 children that should be your #1 focus. He should respect that.
Listen you have to do what best for you if your not ready then you not ready. If he's really into you he'll wait if not then you he was never really that into you