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He must've been a real jerk?
If he do something fundamentally wrong (cheating, lying about big things, physical abuse, one sided verbal abuse, etc) then what you did is appropriate. But if you two just grew apart, you just lost attraction towards him, relationship ran it’s course, etc. then what you did was very cruel. I say this because I had an ex do something similar to me and I didn’t do anything fundamentally wrong. Not to say I was in the wrong on some things, I definitely was. I actually wanted her to break up with me. But I thought we would have a mutual respect for each other afterwards. I was wrong. Dead wrong.
@ArrowheadSW @bluetoblack99 He cheated on me with a woman twice my age- yet blamed me for him cheating saying I wasn't "emotionally mature" enough for him. Yet he wanted to stay friends with me after the breakup, and made several attempts to contact and check up on me. Trust me when I say blocking and getting rid of him was best for my mental and emotional health.
He banged a 70 yr old grandma? Gross. You absolutely did the right thing. What a moron that he tried to gaslight you. Proud of you blocking his ass. I think one of the reasons I had a ex block me is because she fucking cheated. I never found out the truth but I’m suspicious it happens a week or two before we split. She started a new and that’s when she started acting weird. I think she found some guy there she liked. Since her and I were having problems she went to him. Lying whore.
@bluetoblack99 Haha! No no, this happened years ago! When I was 22, 23? He was 28, and the woman he cheated on me with was in her 40s! Ugh, sorry your ex might have cheated on you as well. I swear I really hate cheaters!!! If they are unhappy with us, just tell us, don't go behind our backs or make it seem like the relationship ending is our fault.
Weird. Well you did the right thing. Yeah the more I thought about the more it seemed like my ex cheated. When we broke up I thought we would have mutual respect. But instead she treated me like absolute shit. Very callous. People handle guilt differently. Some people gaslight and double down to make themselves feel better. She was a cunt.
It hurts you more than it hurts him to stalk his social media. But I know there is some sort a psychological quirk people have to ruminate on a ex that fucked them over. It’s this bittersweet love hate thing.
How do u know she stalks you?
Well I constantly see new profiles with her handles and her face on snapchat , instagram, facebook and sadly she's gone so far as messaging my last girlfriend and tried lying about me making false alligations saying that she was pregnant with my kid when we never had sex and it's just absolutely mental
I mean does making a new social media account On it’s own count as stalking? I also made a new account on insta but not for my ex. I would think it is a bit narcissistic if he thought like that. But in your case I guess you are right because she’s contacting you.
At first I thought it was just normal accounts no biggie but I would always block the accounts so she couldn't try anything I'd go on with my day and boom another one
Just wondering did you block her because she was contacting you or because you didn’t wanna see her online?
I blocked her because she would contact me I haven't seen anything in past two days thankfully hopefully it has stopped and I can go on like normal
Oh I see. I’m on the opposite side of the coin. I have been blocked again but I have not tried to contact my ex in 2 years. In your case it makes sense because she has been contacting you constantly. But otherwise I find it rude if somebody blocks me if not disturbing them
That I understand you haven't done anything so it seems as if they've prematurely blocked you so he wouldn't have to see or bring up the past