How do people find others, and how do people get over exs?

[SeanshterMonster]

It's been almost 2 years. I still have dreams of us together. I can't find someone because people are impossible to talk to. The world is on fire and everyone is full of hate so they point it at anyone.

[slatyb]

I found my wife on match. com, but I find people perfectly easy to talk to. People are just people, if you find them impossible to taok to, you are going to have to change, because they won’t change for you.

[SeanshterMonster]

Everyone I meet is so full of hate though. That's why it's hard to talk to them. All people ever talk about anymore is politics and it stresses me out, not to mention people today as so quick to wish death onto people.

[slatyb]

Maybe you need to find a new group of people. I don’t know anyone like that.

[Mofunfour20]

Success is the best therapy. Work on your purpose. Chase money and women will chase you. Most attractive women aren't loyal because social media gives them loads of options and means to advertise themselves.

[Anonymous]

Get a better view of the world, change your attitude, it’ll help people like you more...

[SeanshterMonster]

It's hard to change a view when you constantly see city's burning, businesses get destroyed and people wish death to religious people

[Opinion Owner]

what does that have to do with finding a date tho?

[Opinion Owner]

plenty of people are still dating even tho those things are happening. the world doesn't stop for things that have always happened and always will

[SeanshterMonster]

It's stressful, I always meet people like them around where I live. The world is burning and falling, there's no point of finding someone if within 2 years the world will end

[Opinion Owner]

if the world is going to end in 2 year (haha no it won't, not sure where you're getting that from) then why wouldn't you want to spend that time being happier?

[SeanshterMonster]

Cause there's no point to a relationship if it ends after 2 years. And most likely if it lasts it will end in divorce but more then likely it will last maybe a year and there's no point to that. I wish i could go back and stop myself from all my other relationships because they just end in pain and suffering. It's been 2 years sense my last relationship and I'm still in pain from the beak up. Of course I wish I was in a relationship, every day I wish I had someone to cuddle with, to watch TV shows or movies, to go out and explore, to make them laugh and smile. I love that. But it's gone and it will never happen again because every relationship is diffrent. And nothing good lasts forever so what's even the point of anything.

[Opinion Owner]

you don't know if a relationship will end in 2 years or 10 years... that's why we take chances. you are just setting yourself up for loneliness and you won't grow. you will stay the same and just get worse and more scared of the world, developing more anxiety... but hey, if that's what you want... don't say no one tried to help you. you are very young and to be saying all of this is concerning for your future.

[SeanshterMonster]

I was born with anxiety. I have GAD, (generalized anxiety disorder). I'm just afraid of putting so much emotional effort and hard work into a relationship only for it to end. And after it ends, what was the point of all that hard work

[Opinion Owner]

i also have years and YEARS of anxiety since i was little. but i put in the work because i don't want it to control my life and make me feel crappy.

[SeanshterMonster]

I've tried that. But no matter what I do I still feel crappy. I doubt I will meet someone. I have no idea how to meet people in the adult life. It's not the same as highschool.

[Sevenpointfive]

if you want to find you have to look.

some people don't get over exes.

i hope that helps

[Slartybartfast]

Let me know when you figure it out.

Your certainly not alone.