Do people find you trustworthy?

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People often tend to trust me easily. I've had people who were initially skeptical of me because XYZ person said bad things about me, but once people get to know me they tend to trust me a lot. For example, a couple of days back one of my juniors sent me about 20k for safekeeping. We haven't even known each other for 4-5 years and only met 3-4 times in person.

wolfcat87 · Accepted Answer

Yes, people tend to use me as a confessional. People have confessed murders, rapes, dark fantasies, etc. I'm not sure why other than I come across as nice, unphased by what they are saying, non judgmental to some, and quiet. I don't tend to get them in trouble or repeat their secrets. That's for karma to deal with. Outside of confessions, I've been put in positions of trusts pretty quickly like voted into a board of directors in a non profit. I'm just not threatening or dangerous at all. The only people ever suspicious of me are men's mothers and people who don't believe people can be nice. That's weird, because I never give them reason to be suspicious.

IslaTheWitch · Accepted Answer

Many people confide in me.

My friends do. It's kinda obvious; we are friends, so we trust each other.
My family do. It's even more obvious and doesn't need an additional explanation.

Quite often, people online I barely know. This is surprising but also very uplifting. And I will do everything not to betray this trust. Especially since I did nothing to earn it...

But sometimes, people I let closer don't trust me. It's a funny situation because I do trust them :D

So it's hard to say if people find me trustworthy :D

mobiusforniner · Accepted Answer

Yes. I notice peoples trust in me can be broken down into three important elements. Foster these three things and people will naturally trust you

Skill and ability: You know what you are doing. You speak or participate on a subject and actually have the merits to back up your experience

integrity: You always follow through on commitments, are reliable, honest with people even when it hurts, because it is right. And you always mean what you say

benevolence: You make people feel you are for them

Staximus · Accepted Answer

About 13 years ago, one of my friends moved into the spare room at my old house. My brother told him (about me) "you can trust this guy with a million dollars for 20 years, but don't trust him around a hamburger for 5 minutes" that about sums up my trustworthiness haha

sage2021 · Answer

Yes, I am probably the most trusted person you'd ever know.
There was this old lady in my apartment that showed me where she stashed her cash in case she couldn't get to it and hold onto it for her. I only knew her about a month.
I am also not a snoop. If I am left alone at someone's house or business, I wouldn't go rifling through their stuff.
This comes from how badly I hated it when my Mother snooped through everything in my room and threw things in the trash. Like the drinking cup the drummer Mike Shrieve of Santana gave to me at one of his concerts. In the trash it went! 🤬

mandyfire98 · Answer

Yeah I'd say most people find me very trustworthy. Most people always think I'm very innocent.

JacobJordan · Answer

Very. I know a lot of people's dark secrets because when people meet me they learn I am honest non judgmental and I speak less than I listen. Many tell me things because they want advice on how to deal with it. Some tell me because they think the act of sharing will ease the burden and some share because they really need someone to talk too.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, a number of individuals I've just met have confided in me about topics they haven't even shared with their relatives. I really feel that my being a water sign has something to do with it. People feel safe with us because we're recognised to be natural empaths.

Just_Kamy · Answer

Yes, it really is not difficult, you just have to be a person who knows how to listen to opinions and give yours with respect and empathy, people feel comfortable not being judged so they probably feel that you are trustworthy

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Yeah, once they get past my appearance (that is if that wasn't the thing that gravitated them towards me) people sometimes tell me their life stories for reason.. I guess I just got the friendly trustworthy look..

menina · Answer

Yes, most people I know find me trustworthy. Sometimes they even tell me things that I want to know without me asking.

NathanDavis · Answer

well, I am 30's already... so I am known, and people do trust those that are known

SphynxUK · Answer

Yes. I am exceptionally trustworthy. Always have been.

Thestupidusername · Answer

yup. in a sense of i'd help you hide the body not so much for gossip tho

Likes2drive · Answer

Yeah most people trust me, probably because I don’t give them any reason not to

Ruenella_ · Answer

I think because I'm quiet, people feel that they can.

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, my friends have no reason to not trust me.

Anonymous · Answer

I mean yeah, but considering the rest that bar doesn't have to be very high for me to be considered the trustworthy one.😆

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

Due to past experiences I have huge trust issues. If I trust you, you are in the.5% group.

Tomisworthless · Answer

No im ugly dirty poor and quiet so people give me bad characteristics

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Only those who really get to know me

syncheart · Answer

I hope so, but I can't tell for sure.

Wallythewalrus2 · Answer

Absolutely!

alexiah · Answer

Yes.

dudeinohio · Answer

Absolutely

jahaims · Answer

Yeah

grega239 · Answer

I guess.

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