What will he think when he sees me in a bikini?

[Anonymous]

my guy friend currently has a girlfriend, but he used to have a crush on me and vice versa, he's a flirt with every girl, except when his girlfriend is there, BUT with me it always goes further EVEN when his girlfriend is there, ex:(trying, lol I stopped him) to grind in front of his gf! I'm not sending him any messages that I'm interested so I know he's not misinterpreting anything, in fact I even told him who I like! My friends think its just physical, so does that mean I can't go to the beach or water park with him? don't get me wrong he's a great friend we confide in each other, like the same music, we do to each others events. If he sees me in a bathing suit, how would he react, since he's already grinding when I'm fully clothed:P?

[proudtexasgirl]

I think you should have more respect for YOURSELF to not let a guy treat you like this. He's using you. He has a girlfriend. Of course you can wear a bathing suit - he shouldn't dictate what you wear - but don't let him be a pig.

[Anonymous]

i feel he would run after you if you hav a gr8 body and would dump her current gf.so hav fun babe and make him want you .dont care about his current girlfriend ,if you like him go get him

[Asker]

The thing that just annoys me about this situation, is that we sorta when like 2 times a while ago lol (but we didn't even kiss or hug or anything), then he said he wasn't interested. But then he keeps touching me saying I'm beautiful, asking how many boyfriends I've had, ect.. I don't get him, what do you think?

[Asker]

*WENT out like 2 times

[Opinion Owner]

maybe he is waiting 4 his current relationship to end smoothly and till then he wants to keep you interested in him and maybe leave his current girlfriend rather less hurted as she may feel disgusted after she sees you both kissing or hugging even though their relationship ain't over.so maybe d guy is waiting 4 d correct time 2 leave her and carry forward with u

[proudtexasgirl]

You're a jerk.

If the boy has a girlfriend, regardless of whether their relationship is strong or weak, back off.

[dvd89]

He may not be having a good time with his girlfriend he may like you better. If you like him it will be OK other than that do not go to the water park in a bikini go in something else.