In all honesty, How many of your Breakups were Your Fault?

[pervertedjester]

I'd say at least half if not 75% were my fault. I have my moments but the inner asshole/ptsd is just waiting around the corner to fuck things up. What about you?

All of Them! (I'm very difficult to love)

At most 75% of them are my fault. (What can I say, I like to play)

Half at best. (I did stuff, they did stuff... hindsight and all)

No more than a quarter. (I'm fairly loveable/buyer's remorse)

None they were all epic losers responsible for everything bad thing that ever happened between us.

Negative Zero (Never been in a relationship)

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Honestly, I’ve only had 2 serious long term relationships. The others were in high school and not very serious, so it was mutual.
My first real relationship, we met in a very low place for both of us, we were both mentally struggling, but we dated for two years off and on. He wasn’t emotionally mature enough to communicate what was bothering him; so he would shut down and want to be alone (break up). We got back together and made things work a bit. Soon thereafter, he just fell out of love and needed to be alone to work on himself.
My second real relationship, He was a great guy at first, seemingly stable and wanted a future together. Off and on like my last relationship. He always broke up with me because of his own negative perceptions of me. I always put in the effort and carried the weight of the relationship. I loved him deeply. However, he always had an excuse and blame to put on me for all of his own issues he needed to fix.
I know I have my flaws, but I never did anything to cause the breakup or make it my fault for the breakups. Im pretty easy to love, at least that’s what I think. I don’t expect much except for communication, loyalty, commitment, and respect.
I won’t say it’s their fault, they have their own things in life that they struggled with and it’s understandable. I was always patient with them and always supported and loved them with all my heart.

[Prettygurl12]

They were all my fault in that I initiated all of them 😂

[Heartache0405]

My first ex broke up with me because she claimed I was too depressing. My second ex I broke up with because she was too clingy. My third ex I broke up with because I only thought of them as a friend and nothing more and felt it was best for the both of us. My fourth and final ex I broke up with because she cheated on me with a guy in her class after I had started going to college in her area which was on the other side of the state from where My hometown was and I had no car. No family in the area. And knew nobody except her. And she was still finishing her senior year of high school.


So I wouldn’t say Any of them were my fault. If anything it was at least one or two of theirs.

[OlderAndWiser]

I bear some responsibility for every one of my relationships that has failed, just as each of my partners bore some responsibility. A relationship rarely fails solely because of the faults of one party.

[exitseven]

Maybe half or more. The one that stands out is a girl I dated when I was in college. I didn't like the school I was going to, I had to move back in with my mother, I was really depressed and sad. This girl was probably the only bright spot in my life and I was completely mired in the reality of my life. I do not blame her for dumping me.

[Redstang88]

I wouldn’t say any were totally my fault, and I wasn’t totally innocent either. Biggest thing I keep doing wrong is falling for damaged, unavailable girls

[uncutfun]

Perpesiy, done or not. ya allof them

[TrueConfection]

All of them