Long story, so here me out. My boyfriend had originally told me he wanted nothing to do with me and was going to block me. So.. I packed my stuff and left. But he still hasn’t blocked me, and says that he doesn’t know if this is just a break or not. He said I should take a step back for a little while? He says that he needs space and this is very hard for him to deal with; but him not responding to me is making me lose my mind. His parents say that he refuses to talk about it and they don’t even know what’s going on. He won’t tell me if it’s officially over or not. He’s not the type of person to sugarcoat anything. I just wish I knew what he was thinking. A family member of mine had said “he told me that he doesn’t want you contacting him anymore”. This family member doesn’t want us together and refuses to show me this message he supposedly sent. I’m just very confused and all over the place. I feel if he really wanted nothing to do with me, he would’ve ended everything and communication once I moved out. It’s been almost a week. Should I just give up already?
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He ended up responding to me and he’s talking to me now. Not much, but still. He says that being apart isn’t easy for him but we both need the space. But he says “take a few months and ease into things”. He proceeded to tell me that he doesn’t want us finding other people, which was reassuring. I definitely believe I was the main cause in this entire mess. I was a little controlling and had a lot of trust issues. But months? Can’t it be resolved sooner than that?
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