He makes me feel uncomfortable... But he is really a nice guy. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

So, my boyfriend and I have been going out now for a few months. Personally, I don't like kissing him in front of his parents. I think its just WEIRD and awkward ... And he knows that's how I feel about it. In fact, it makes me feel really uncomfortable.

The other day we were in the car with his dad and he leaned in to kiss me like FIVE times! I backed away every time. but the last time he tried... He held me so that I couldn't back out. I didn't know how to Handel it... So I just let him. I mean... I didn't want to make a scene with his dad right there. And he is normally a really nice guy. What should I do?

[ppfxxx]

When you say "he knows how I feel about it" have you actually told him because if you have it certainly does sound weird. This could be completly wrong because I don't have any details but the first thing that came into my head reading your post was that he could be gay and is overcompensating in front of the folks.

My advise would be talk to him if you haven't already done so and if this doesn't lead him to moderate his behaviour then dump him because he doesn't respect your feelings

[Anonymous]

just tell him you don't mind kissing him but you find it weird doing it infront of his parents. I'm sure he will understand after all relationships are about telling your partner how you feel. x