Would you go somewhere that will make you feel uncomfortable just for one person?

[Anonymous]

So I've been hanging with this guy a lot, he knows I have a crush on him and he still wants to hang out with me, like literally all night. One time it was so late, I ended up staying at his house because it was 4 am when we finally saw what time it was. So one of my friends won 4 tickets to a resort she invited me and told me to invite my friend, so I told her I will see, at first he said no because he doesn't know them that well ( we all work together by the way just in different areas, he works in at the warehouse, my friend and I work at the store ) which I thought totally understandable, I don't go anywhere that will make me uncomfortable either. So when he asked if I was still going I said yes because I always wanted to go but it's so expensive. Now he's saying he wants to go, I'm really hoping he's not doing this for me, because now I just feel bad.

[Justaguyagain]

I did, but because at least in my case i knew even if it could be unconfortable, i would have fun with the other person

[Asker]

That's understandable, I hope he would do the same but if he's like me I feel like he will regret it and feel alone like how I was when I made myself go to a party with one of my friends.

[zagor]

I don't understand your problem. If he wants to go, fine. If he doesn't and he's just going because you are, well he's a big boy presumably.

[Asker]

I just don't want him to regret going. One time I made myself go to a party with one of my friends and I felt so uncomfortable even though she made sure to stay by my side I still felt alone. I don't want him to feel the same.

[zagor]

Still, it's one party. I think he will survive. I've been to clubs where I drank by myself all night.

[Jamie05rhs]

Don't feel bad! He simply changed his mind. :)
Everything is FINE, hon!

[Asker]

Thank you I just hope he's not like me that's all, I just remembered when I finally agreed to go to a party with my friends I felt so uncomfortable and alone even though my best friend stayed by my side I still felt alone.

[Jamie05rhs]

Aww. Well, just make sure you include him and make him feel welcome. And check in with him occasionally to see if he's enjoying himself. 😇