You've outlined the problems you had when you dated him, and why you broke up.
Has anything changed with him? I mean seriously? Has his behavior shown anything different now than before? Because if it hasn't, then all you're doing, is setting yourself up for more of the same stupid things he was doing before.
Ex's are an "ex" for a reason (you listed a few). Take the time now to focus on yourself. Work on your career goals. Figure out what you messed up in the relationship and how to correct that behavior. Determine what you're looking for in a guy and what traits you want. After you've figured that out, then... then try dating someone else.
Does the idea of going back to the same heartaches, difficulty, arguments, and troubles appeal to you? If not, avoid this guy like he has the plague.
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Listen to what your heart is saying. Why don’t you make a list of all his good points and all his bad/wrong points and then decide if you can live with all his bad/wrong points, if his good points can make up for it. In addition, ask yourself this, would you recommend this guy to one of your friends, as potential boyfriend. If you can’t it may be time to move on.
This is your description summarized. This guy:
- goes through a girls phone without asking
- his mother disrespects his girlfriend to the point of suggesting other women
- he does not contribute his share financially
- he does not support her career choices
Now, would you recommend this guy to your friends? Would you recommend this guy to a random female stranger on the internet? Does this guy sound like a boyfriend anyone wants?
That is a tough one. Doesn't seem like he has trust/respect for you or your privacy. If it were me... I'd not let him back in my life. Just my opinion.
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No. Do not go back with him.
nope; block him and move on
Why hell do girls do this?
How long were you and him together
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