My ex boyfriend already has a new girlfriend and it’s only been a week. Is she just a rebound and they are not going to last?

[Anonymous]

Why did he move on so fast? We were together for two years. It’s only been a week. I thought we were just taking a break but his stories are now of his new girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

that's because he was already with her while you two were together. it's pretty common.

[Asker]

How can I get even because I’m really pissed off

[Unicorn_lover_2002]

Same thing happened to me

[HollyK21]

If he got a girlfriend after only a week it is safe to assume that she was already in the picture, you just didn’t know about it. I saw your comment to the other guy, and if you were physically and emotionally abusive then the last thing you need is a relationship with him or anyone else. You need to work on yourself because it is never ever ok to put your hands on someone for anything other than self defense. He doesn’t deserve that and you know it. So you should wish him well, and get whatever help you need.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

He most likely was already involved or at least talking to this person before you broke up if he was in a relationship a week later..
Doesn't matter though when he moved on, the point is "he moved on" he's with someone else now. Now you need to move on as well.
I mean if you were together two years and he could replace you that easily, means he didn't care that much in the first place, so why keep dwelling on it. Find someone that won't think you're so easy to replace.

[OlderAndWiser]

Why do you think that they have been together for only a week?

[MrOracle]

We don't know anything about the guy, so no one can say anything with certainty, but she could be someone he was talking to before, or he could have just met her and clicked.

As for him, he might be one of those people who can't be alone, and will get with almost anyone rather than be alone. Or, perhaps he wasn't really invested in your relationship at the end, so it was easier to move on. Some people always need some time alone to work out their feelings before getting into another relationship, and some people feel that getting in another relationship will help them move on from the last one (which might be true on the surface, but I've rarely seen that work long-term).

The thing is, none of that really matters. The two of you have broken up, so you need to move on and stop caring about what he's doing. Focus on yourself, whether that's being single and working on yourself for a bit, or if it's meeting new guys. What's going on in his life should not matter to you anymore.

[ohshee]

I'm sorry about your boyfriend and you we always try to find the negative in a relationship breakup but really you have to look at it as you want to find the positive in the positive is he is proving to you right now in this moment who he really is who he really was your relationship this is how much he cared so don't be angry, be sad don't be jealous be happy that he showed you exactly who he is right now before you took it any further he probably already knew her in the days that you were already going to your breakup look at this is a blessing as a positive. Is it negative I would look at him and I would say thank you thank you very much for tell him he's teaching me exactly who you are good luck goodbye and I would walk away but I would even do that I would even confront him on it cuz that's just asking for trouble I know it doesn't seem like it right now but this is a positive

[DaveJord]

Nah... it looks like he was already lining up his next girlfriends while we was backing out on your relationship. So either he was cheating or she is complete rebound chick. But you are out for the moment and I would move one and forget this ass hole.

[skyeee01]

She is either a rebound or i hate to say it but she has been there a lot longer than you want to know. She was probably already in the picture. Either way it is disrespectful whether she was there beforehand or not.

I would just block him and do your best to move on girl. It's a very hard process but you'll be as happier as ever eventually :) I know it's such a shitty feeling one of my ex's done the same thing. I hope you're okay! x

[TiaraGlitzNeon]

Well, looks like it's not a break anymore at this point. Sad, but true. I'd just move on as hard as it may be. If you were physically and emotionally abusive like you claimed, then you have a very slim chance of getting back with this guy, nor should you even try to get back into a relationship until you get that sorted out.

[Anonymous]

Only he can say for sure. There's a lot of questions only he could answer to be able to answer this. But if it helps at all, a lot of guys "deal" with this in the unhealthy way, and by doing exactly this, immediately getting into a new relationship so they aren't thinking about the old one. So it is possible she's just a rebound for sure. Sorry you're hurting :(

[SignedAutographs]

Rebound relationships generally don't last but I also wouldn't expect him to come running back to you, nor should he. One of the AEW girls I'm going to see in May on the 14th, Tay Conti, recently got divorced. She's dating someone new not much 3 months later. I find that EXTREMELY fast to be dating someone; after a divorce. I don't think it'll last but we'll see if she does

[Twalli]

Guys notice other attractive girls while we're in a relationship. Let's say he figured he'd give it a shot to not focus on your breakup and it worked out. You have to realize that deciding to "take a brak" risks your relationship a lot. I can't tell you the number of stories I've heard about someone having random sex while taking a break.

[RealMarek]

There is really know way to tell what the prospects for his new relationship are. Time will tell. Hopefully you will be able to move on, heal, and find a man who is a better match with you.

[AviatorTom]

Sounds like you're jealous. You should know that, in general, guys move on much more quickly than girls do. Girls tend to overthink why the the breakup happened, while guys just accept it and move on.

[SecretGardenBlood65]

There was a married old man where I lived. He was my cousin's grandfather. The man was married for 20 years. his wife died. Three days after the woman's death, the man got married. and that's when i realized men never stay faithful

[cookiecrusher]

How is staying single helping your dead wife?

3 days or 3 years. No real difference. You never know how you react, maybe he needed someone to take his mind off. Also what type of relationship those 2 had.

[Guido]

People leave relationships when they have somebody to move on to. He had this lined up before he broke up with you. Your just finding out about it after the fact. Time for you to get an upgraded model.

[Sasha_Gee]

There is a good possibility they were already in contact when the relationship was going on.

[far2gud4u]

I dont think he waited til you broke up and you probably broke up due to this girl... sorry x

[sheikalana]

She's certainly a rebound and he's using her. If this is going to last or not only God knows it's hard to predict.

[dudeinohio]

I've always had the ability to move on quickly. I just had a breakup with my girlfriend of 3 years. About a week later, I'm dating someone else. We will see how this goes.

[Juxtapose]

Yeah.. story of my life haha. You start to get a feeling that people don't value relationships like you do and then it just starts to demotivate you doesn't it?

[RebeccaBI2000]

It will probably be a messed up relationship or he was not fully committed in yours and he was always looking.

[hi_it_is_me123]

He cheated on you. What a male cunt. You can't have boyfriend/girlfriend in a week and even if you do, it is disrespectful to your exs.

[onlylonelygal]

He didn't just meet that girl he had her on the side for awhile, just forget about him,
He's a loser u can do better

[Vegasrunner]

He did what women do which is kept someone on the side waiting it's pretty smart.

[onlylonelygal]

That could be true, I don't know I've never cheated nor ever wanted too

[Vegasrunner]

@onlylonelygal That's not really saying much, it's easier for women to get sex so they can just wait until a relationship ends. Guys have to make sure they have the next girl lined up. I try 2 keep 7 girls minimum so I have one for each day

[Paul09]

He only needed you for sex, or as a stand by, until someone better comes along. Or he finds another woman to use. Stop thinking about it. The better it will get for you.

[noohair]

I have noticed that some men can't function without a woman. When they are young it is their mother. Later their wife or girlfriend. They move on quickly. Just my observation.

[cookiecrusher]

Judging by all this and your comments.

Get help, you have some issues that need a therapist.

Block your ex on everything, you don't need any more stimulation.

[IveGotNoName]

That or he's been with her longer than you think.. either way, good riddance

[andreasderjuengere]

I would say that this is not longer YOUR business.
He does what he wishes to do.

[TiaraGlitzNeon]

It's literally just a question out of concern and curiosity. This answer is not helpful at all.

[andreasderjuengere]

@TiaraGlitzNeon No answer here will be helpful. Unless your EX boyfriend gives it :)

[jahaims]

If you need to take a break you need to break up. Taking a break is just for people who can't be honest with theirselves.

[Cjbruser]

I honestly don't really care that much. It is very likely he was already interested in the other floozy while he was with you.

[DangItBobby]

Most likely he was already talking to her in some capacity when you two were in a relationship, I’m sorry that happened

[CallmeTheKnight]

A break is a break up.
Some people can move on much faster than others

[Iron_Man]

That’s absolutely disgusting that must’ve been in the works

[Dchrls78104]

Why do you care? He's your ex. Get over it and move on.

[Wise4myage]

He's probably been with her for some time, or she is just a rebound.

[Godsvengeance]

He's your ex for a reason. Do yourself a favor and not give a shit either way. What's done is done

[Anonymous]

Just taking a break? Why do people do that and expect everything to be ok?

[anton_dee]

He already had her before breakup. In fact can I presume that he initiated your breakup?

[Abdulwahh]

You can never be sure my advice is that is not important continue with your life the answer won't benefit you

[OpenMindblowing]

In a while you will see you are better of without him sooner then later.


Or you sleep with his best friend

[Tweetybirdii]

Probably was seeing her during your relationship

[slatyb]

He’s your ex boyfriend. Stop following him.

[Citizenkirk]

He's your ex. Why do you care?

[rabbitzzz]

Guess he is a man in demand.

[Asker]

Is it too late to get him back?

[rabbitzzz]

Depends on what happened.

[Asker]

I was physically and emotionally abusive

[rabbitzzz]

That's new. Usually its the guy.

[rabbitzzz]

You need to show him you have changed

[HollyK21]

A week is no where near enough time to change those traits. She needs psychological help, because if he took her back she will only abuse him again. All it takes is a fit of rage, jealousy, or some other emotion that she can’t healthily handle and she will lash out again. That’s toxic and not ok.

[humanearth]

I bet he was with her before you two became ex's

[Staximus]

It's your ex, who caresTime move on with your life

[driven159]

maybe they had a relationship before your break

[clemdenim]

He is an ex, let it go

[Anonymous]

She already swallowed him

[Anonymous]

Its called a backup plan.

[Pterodon]

Why do you care?