Did I make the right decision by setting boundaries with a guy that was just using me?

[Lyhra4]

I set boundaries with a guy that was just using myself for sex and he basically stopped texting me and didn't try to meet again. I'm feeling guilty cause I was start developing feelings 😢. Did I make the right decision? I have thought about texting him but I'm aware that this will give him more power and boost his ego. what should I do?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

You may the right decisions no guy should use a girl just for sex, any sexual language exchange with someone you just met is a bad sign for sure, politely telling you to move on and find someone new but not too soon, take some time off from dating and/ or relationships then take things from there, no guy should use a girl just for sex a girl deserves better

[Lyhra4]

thank you so much

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Lyhra4 You're welcome my friend :) <3 <3

[MountAverage]

Not sure I understand. What would have been the alternative to not setting boundaries?

[Lyhra4]

letting him use me which was indeed horrible for me :(

[MountAverage]

I'm glad you realize that.

[Juicyj76]

Let him go , your young enough to meet someone else. . Only next time set the boundaries before having sex. Make it clear that you want to get to know them before you get intimate with them.
This guy that is ignoring you obviously is not worthy of being with you. So don't text him and don't give him the chance to use you again.

[Lyhra4]

thank you so much

[England4eva]

You ignore, you wait, you leave (mentally)

Unfortunately none of these are fun or exciting answers, but they are answers that work.

[Lyhra4]

thank you

[England4eva]

Your welcome hub

[England4eva]

Hun*

[Anonymous]

Women have this romanticized notion of fucking a fuck boy and catch feelings and hoping they'd change the guy, or the guy would change for her. He stopped talking to you when you set boundaries. What is the alternative do you think would happen if you didn't. You'd catch deeper feelings, he'd figure it out and stop talking to you.

[Lyhra4]

absolutely true, thanks

[serious_miss419]

Tough sh! t for him.
As for yourself, move along - u stood up for yourself and walked away valuing yourself. What could be better than that?

[Lyhra4]

you're right thanks for cheering me up :)