Is it considered cheating to still text your ex, but hide it from your SO? (Page 2)
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Depends on topic of conversation and frequency. Eg wishing them happy birthday and occasionally sending them things that are relevant to them is not cheating but constantly talking to them or sexting them could be.
Don’t ever hide anything from your SO, with the exception of surprise parties. It never ends well.
The moment you hide conversation with a person from the opposite sex that you either are or have been close to in the past it´s cheating to me.
It's wrong. - period! Just stop it! You are walking on a wire without a net so if SO finds out you will probably crash and burn. It's just not right.
No one cares if you are talking about yourself. What you are asking is 'If a tree falls in a forest, and there’s no one around to hear it, does it make a sound?' Who the hell cares?
The people who are hating on me for asking the fucking question shit head
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Whoa nelly. We got a bitch up in here.
Depends what your talking about. Bit rubbish to hide it from your SO though. If it's innocent should be no need to hide
If no emotional cheating is going on, then it's more dishonest than anything. Still bad.
Yes it wrong he should know. unless your open about it and he knows nothing going off between you both and that it is just friends should be ok
I am still good friends with my ex. We talk often both in text and on the phone. My SO would have to get over it. My ex and I had kids together. We still talk about them. She has remarried and we are just friends.
If you are hiding it, then you already know it's wrong.
Like the common rules go, if you cannot tell your SO then you shouldn't be doing it.
Yeah, don’t do it…….
At least don’t hide it.
If a girl I'm in a relationship with still texts her ex she's obviously not over him. Not interested in that drama. Bye! Don't let the door hit you on the way out!
I would say yes cause there's lying involving, why the need to lie if nothing bad is happening?
I mean... yeah... I would consider that a pretty serious violation of trust.
Not cheating, but I'd break up over it. Dishonesty is not something I tolerate from my self or my partner.
Yeah, it is considered cheating. Your ex is your ex for a reason especially when secretly messaging them.
If your sexting than its cheating. But hiding anything is inappropriate.
Yes, hiding it is the problem here. Cheating is breaking the rules you set up with your partner. Like consent, not giving them a chance to decline does not make the action right.
If you hide it, you've a reason as to why you're hiding it and it's a bit suspicious.