Made it clear to my ex it was over?

[Anonymous]

After nearly a year of being ghosted, tormented and treated like crap from my ex who broke up with me.

I had the courage and the strength to let him go yesterday I finally stood up to him and told him NO!

He was crying but not one but did he fight for me he just kept telling me maybe one day he will be me. Right and I said no.

Enough is enough and I drove away for good.

I couldn’t sleep a wink last night tho I know I did the right thing for myself but why do I feel so crap.

Not once yesterday did he tell me he wanted me and he even asked me to be his friend for awhile and I said no as I have been his friend and I didn’t even want to be.

The last thing he said was that he did love and care about me but he couldn’t look at me to say it and I asked him to look at me and say it and he said he couldn’t as it hurt and I just said look at me and he did eventually and said it to me but I felt nothing.

It meant nothing to me.

I don’t believe him because someone that loves you would never treat u like that.

I don't know my heads melted and I need advice

[melnc]

You did the right thing by ending a relationship that wasn’t going anywhere or one in which you weren’t satisfied. Don’t blame yourself for your unhappiness... you tried your best, and it just didn’t work out. Maybe your ex tried their best, too, or maybe they didn’t. Either way, don’t beat yourself up because the necessity for putting in the effort to make things work goes both ways. In the end, you decide the path you take. Ultimately, you need to forgive yourself to get over your breakup feelings of guilt. Rise above this feeling by being aware that this guilt is impossible to avoid, and you must actively move on by learning from your past mistakes, taking responsibility for your actions, and learning to forgive yourself. Don't be sad, you just did the right thing

[Asker]

Thank you

[melnc]

You're welcome

[Anonymous]

Etch what you're feeling as deeply into your memory as you can, because this is an important moment. That's what it sounds like when your gut is talking to you. Logically, you know you need to run. Emotionally, you likely feel terrible that this didn't work the way you hoped. You're probably mourning the loss of the man you thought he was, as you come to terms with recognizing the man he truly is.

That's why I place so much importance on remembering this moment, because hearing that inner voice can be very difficult over the noise of emotion. It can be completely drown out with infatuation, if you're not careful.

You did the right thing! Not only that, but this will absolutely make you into a stronger woman. It already has. I can clearly see that you know your worth. Probably weird coming from a stranger, but I'm very proud of you

[Asker]

Awh thank you so much this means a lot your right!

[Guy13]

He is going to test you... Ready?

[Asker]

What you mean?

[Guy13]

You think he’s bad. How bad? Bad enough to resist one more try from him…he’s going to test you ☝️ more time.

[Asker]

Ah it’s dead like and I don’t want him

[Guy13]

Good for you !!! Do something fun over weekend !!