If it's not working I normally will just end the relationship but there's always that one person lol.
I dated a guy in college that was toxic. Yeah, really hot, a bit of a douchebag. He was narcissistic, manipulative and a cheater. That's one I should've walked away from and I did a few times but I always came back. He was like a drug to me. I have zero excuses, the sex was out of this world, even when we fought he knew exactly what to say to work me like a puppet. If we broke up he would somehow make me feel guilty that it ended and the next thing I know I'd be in bed with him all over again.
So normally I will end the relationship if it's bad or not working but there's always that one person that just has that magic over you sometimes.
I stayed with my first ex. He was pretty much begging me to stay since apparently I had no reason to leave. But I wasn’t going to tolerate any of what he said. He wanted to get me pregnant when I was 17 and he was 19. I kept saying no and I’m glad I said no, sure if he got me pregnant I’d love the child but why I’m glad I said no was because I was still a child myself, I was not ready, I had no job and I knew he was going to walk away from it if I did had a child. But it was so painful to stay with him, he wouldn’t let me walk away, I had to wait for him to call off the relationship and boy was I happy.
u I believe in fixing the problem working things out coming up with different solutions I don’t believe in throwing in the towel just because you’re having a bad time the only way that I walk away if she cheats on me sexually in person or even phone sex or cyber sexting that’s the ultimate relationship betrayal
10 years with a girl that spent most of her time mentally and emotionally hurting me. Yes the sex is great and being around her is great, until the control freak comes out. Never again.
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If there are a few too many cracks in the foundation, the building isn't safe, and the builders are in trouble for half-assing it. The responsible thing is to abandon the building, and let it be torn down. Otherwise, you're asking for the roof to fall on you. Lesser things can be patched up, and may be worth it. But a rotten beyond hope foundation is game over.
Relationships are not so different from buildings, in that sense.
Besides the typical reasons?
Being controlling, be it emotional, physical, mental or financial.
I remember an ex getting mad because I bought a new phone, with my own money, without any impact on our expenses or financial.
Granted, I told her about a few months before that that I was not interested on getting it. I had a change of heart. Apparently, I should have told her that I had a change of heart.
I get out of a bad relationship an I dont put up with a bad one after my ex burned me with hot wax I was like were done she burnt my nipples an I dont put up with that or cheaters like my ex catching her with another girl an she had nerve to say you can join in I was like I'm out of here was her place talk about nuts
Ill try my hardest to make it with buuut if i can clearly see she's not putting in any effort on her part thats just about my limit. Ill throw in the towel at that point.
otherwise i can stay and do whatever it takes to make it work
I would only walk away if I’ve exhausted all options to find a way forward that is healthy and good for long term.
I would walk away if there is no way to communicate and resolve things between us.
What makes you walk away from a relationship? Disappointment, disillusionment, disharmony or just lying or cheating.
Why do some people still put up/stick it out even if it’s hurting them? Probably because of Hope for Change or Error in Judgment.
I've been victims of BOTH!
Someone stays in a bum fuck relationship because they have bad self-esteem and don't think they deserve any better. The only other reason I can think of is that they are complete lunatics if they stay.
I found myself on both ends of the spectrum in the past, not finna discuss on why I was on the bad end of the stick, but I walked away from my first relationship of constant bullshit from the person that didn't change.
I'm the kind of person to just leave a relationship if it gets toxic. I might hate myself, but I don't hate myself enough to sit through a bad relationship.
u it was not me walking away... it was them, and they walked away from their own issues, but mistaken those with me, lol
long stories...
I try to work things out and get the help I need to make my side of the issue better but if the other person is shitting on me then it's pointless to waste my energy on that.
I try to make the relationship work, but when the time comes to walk away, I politely do that.
Is the pain of leaving more than the pain of staying? It hurts to give it up and walk away or does it hurt more to stay and be trampled on? I can live with my decisions which ever they may be…..
The moment I'm disrespected, I walk away. Never again. Option C or A.
I would just find them annoying or some other reason that makes me realize that she is just not the right one for me.
“Stick to it/Make it work” before God kinda thing.
Give it a chance but when anything is done intentionally…it’s downhill fast
I walk away over unnecessary drama. Or even if it is just not clicking anymore. Isn't fair to either of us to prolong it.
I told my girlfriend that there are certain things I am not okay with under any circumstances. If she continues to do thrm, then I'll leave
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