How to breakup nicely?

[Anonymous]

I’ve realized I have way too much going to be in the relationship I’m in right now. I’ve been thinking on it for a bit now, but haven’t done it yet because I keep going back and fourth with what I want
Worst part, is I was about to breakup with him this weekend but our anniversary is a week away…. I didn’t realize until he brought it up.
What’s the least horrible way to handle this?
Breaking up a week before it is cruel, but breaking up right after is still pretty cruel too 🙁 I feel awful, help?

[Guy13]

It seems as though it would be easier for him to break-up before. To have an anniversary and think everything is good…then to find out she was stringing me along for 3 months.-That would be really hard to handle because obviously, I have no value to you 🤷🏻‍♂️
Be honest and straightforward. There is no easy way. At least you care enough to not ghost 👻 etc. Personally, I would want it to happen before anniversary.

Make sense⁉️

[Anonymous]

Is their such a thing?