My enemy dated my most recent ex-boyfriend. She was my good friend before, and she told me to break-up with him and egged me on saying he's not a good guy so I should dump him, only to sleep with him the day after we broke up (classy I know.) And lied to me about sleeping with him so I had to find out through him that they'd hooked up and she'd lied.
Our mutual friend (I introduced her to the enemy and she is supposed to be much closer to me than her) is DEFENDING my enemy, saying "But you guys were broken up, right?" And "She couldn't help her feelings, it's not that deep. He's only your ex, not your boyfriend." Yeah, my RECENT EX.
This guy hurt me SO BAD then my enemy got with him, and my "close friend" is defending her actions? She also refuses to stop being friends with her even though they're not close. Is she really my friend? Should I drop her too?
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It does not sound good. Their priority is obviously not the Girls... Be Aware of all you women and not just you three... All you are like this...
Maybe your friend should mind her business point blank
Each person is different and deals with breakups and exes differently. I'm more like your friend in that regard, in that an ex is an ex and I do not care what she does or whom she dates. So I would not blow off that friend over this just because she has a different perspective than you.
The other friend, now enemy, seems to have plotted this scenario while you were dating the guy so that to me is a backstab and crossed the line, so I agree with you on ending that particular friendship.