Forced breakup because I had sex with my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

hi. im 18. so long story short i have boyfriend who i love soooo much he treats well we work at the same place and are very close. in the begining everything was great we met each others parents and my mom thought he was great for me. so a couple months later me and my so i thought were my friends decided to go on a little weekend getaway like we usually do every other month. only this time we planned to bring our special someones. i brought my boyfriend and gave him my vcard. long story short my mom found out and my "friends" threw me under the bus. i lied at first and told her he didn't spend the night and that we didn't have sex. but the the truth eventually came out and i confessed. she made me break up with him and cut off all contact. we didn't ofc. deep in my heart ik he was God given and was meant for me. and we decided to just date in secret using our time at work to see each other. their are other factors to this story but my overall question is should you break u because of your parent. i mean ik i shouldn't have lied but i think sometimes love comes with a fight. please if you guys need more clarity to help with my situation ask questions. thank you!

stay together ( fight through this girl.. ur an adult)

break up

[ShiftingMonke]

I think your mother has the best of intentions at heart. She probably doesn't want you to get hurt, doesn't want you to fall pregnant, etc.; her heart is in the right place. But at the end of the day, you're an adult. You can love who you wish. She can't keep you safe from your own decisions. Even if she could, that would only stunt your own personal development. You must follow your own path, for better or worse.

[TheSpaceGnome]

If you love eachother, stay together, other people's opinions don't matter, not even the opinions of your parents. You can male it public again once you have your own place.

[LazerBean]

He's a common hoe, def not relationship worthy. Too late for you now though so doesn't make much difference.

[SamuelFish]

you just randomly say this based on nothing and hurting the poster - you’re clearly heartbroken. Also it isn’t too late to reverse trauma and connect in meaningful sexual relationships. You’re allowed to get to heal.

[LazerBean]

I've never done something stupid like that, so can't relate. You'll have to excuse me for not telling her what she wants to hear.

[Anonymous]

you're 18... why the fuck are you letting your mom tell you what to do with your relationship? ?

[loveslongnails]

You're 18. If you love each other, and I do mean EACH OTHER, because you'll need to hear it and see from him, then tell the rest of the world to fuck off.

[Berethor]

Lost your virginity to him, break up make you used, he should make you an honest woman.

[Cheerfull009]

It is your choice , you must live your own life, others have no right to breakup from your lover, stay with your boyfriend

[mark000h]

Don't break up.

[Anemone978]

Don't break up because of your parents...

[NostalgiaSenpi]

You're an adult, put your foot down.

[strateguy632]

separate