I can see neglect of one spouse. Seeking attention from somebody else. That special attention that they're being neglected.
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So many things cause divorce and breakup. The first is to realize not everyone has the goal of staying together in the first place. Some people are just in it for the benefits and as soon as hard times hit, they’re out. Circumstances play a role too. Couples don’t plan for hardship and hardly any couples see the need to work things out.
Lack of respect for the institution of Marriage. If you don't respect something, you won't take it seriously. And you will treat it casually and flippantly.
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I can see neglect of one spouse. Seeking attention from somebody else. That special attention that they're being neglected.
So many things cause divorce and breakup. The first is to realize not everyone has the goal of staying together in the first place. Some people are just in it for the benefits and as soon as hard times hit, they’re out. Circumstances play a role too. Couples don’t plan for hardship and hardly any couples see the need to work things out.
It starts with a thought in the head:
"What am I missing out on?"
"This'll be different"
"Nobody will know."
"Everybody does it"
"It's not a big deal"
Probably irony written but unmarked. Or misunderstood.
The rest would be simple separations and no contact (to mutual gladness).
Lack of respect for the institution of Marriage. If you don't respect something, you won't take it seriously. And you will treat it casually and flippantly.
Read the book "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan
Everything will make sense to you after reading that book
The only legit excuse (and no, I'm not legitimizing cheating), is to try to get away with it
That's the ONLY REASON PEOPLE CHEAT
People don't try to solve the first crisis they face and decide to give up instead.
Selfishness. Actually that is the cause of most problems.
sexless marriage can cause issues.. ask me how I know..
Dishonesty lack of loyalty untrustworthy's the cause.
When the wife stops having sex with the husband
sex, money and prestige.
Knowing you have options