Did they try to come back after the breakup?

[ManOnFire]

And what did you do? Were you okay with it and went back? Or you kept that door closed forever?

[Anonymous]

I admit I once tried to reconnect with one. But it was NOT about getting back together. It was getting closure about what she said to me at the end.

She talked to me like I was less then human for no justifiable reason whatsoever. 95% of the time my gut knows what’s up. However this was a rare 5% moment where I was completely blindsided. She said it with a straight face. So this wasn’t out of anger but she really believed what she said.

I just didn’t want to believe it what she believed was true. That me hurting for much longer than I like to admit.

[Leapfrog00]

If the girl cheated, I answer the phone and give myself the satisfaction of telling her I don't take cheaters back. if it's a one time thing, maybe, but it never is.

Now, if we left on good terms, I might take her back. It really depends on the situation. If she broke up with me, I might take her back, depending on how fickle she is.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

What if you broke up with her?

[Leapfrog00]

@LaFemmeFatale_1 That would probably depend on the situation also. To best answer though, if I didn't feel we had any chemistry, it would probably be a waste of time. Now, if I realized I made a mistake and she was my better half, I would take her back. If I thought she was too good for me and that she could do better than me, I wouldn't take her back because I'd feel that I owe it to her. If it weren't anything like that and I did realize I still loved her, and I had no idea why I let her go, I'd probably take her back. So many factors, lol

[morgaan_madison]

No. I never went back because they treated me like crap but they have tried to reach out to me.

[Pinay_ako]

Yes they did. I believe when the past is calling, it has nothing new to say. Don’t pick up.

[ManOnFire]

Fully agree.

[StormChaser838]

I broke up from a very abusive relationship which I was trying for years to leave for long, so when it finally happened , even though on very upsetting circumstances, once I recovered I was too happy to be back on the block.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Was it emotionally abusive?

[StormChaser838]

@LaFemmeFatale_1 Abusive in every way, like we would be coming back from a party and suddenly she would just slap me very hard across the face. I would nearly bang the car with the shock of the slap and somehow when I regained control I would ask her, what the fuck was that for? So she would say, I saw the look you gave that girl. I would say what look? She'd say, a look like you wanted to undress her with your eyes. So I'd say, what look is that? and why did you slap me, and so hard. Then she would say, don't cry like a bitch, I'm such a small girl and you are such a tough guy.
So she used to constantly do all shit like that, break things and stuff and get even physical.
When a women knows that you are a 100 % gentleman and will never touch a woman back and she cannot win a verbal argument with you, they get very frustrated and take total advantage.
Also from the beginning I would let her boss the total situation in every way. I used to feel very guilty that I used to spend too much time at work so I would let her pussy whip me a lot to pacify her but some women take advantage. I would let her handle the whole show, I would only put my foot down on issues of principals and she could not accept that. Also I have a very pressured job and by the time I came home I would be too tired to fight with her and would just bend the fuck over and keep quiet for peace. By nature I am a very soft spoken and unassuming person, but I don't know how but I always land up dominating people, whether I am dealing with men or women. So to combat that I used to also try and balance the relationship but it was soon then go to the opposite extreme. I think I have a problem with balance, but some women are just from HELL !!! Anyway, sorry to ramble , I must be boring you with old war stories, take care...

[fantasticass]

Congratulations on leaving. Sounds like she needs mental help. You deserve better.

[BCRanger10]

She sent me a friend request on Facebook about five years later. I ignored it and eventually deleted it.

[ManOnFire]

My man. High five.

[BCRanger10]

🙌👊

[Sixgunsound]

This seems to be a really popular question right now. Is it breakup season now that the weather is improving or something like that?

[ManOnFire]

Lol. I asked this because of how many people WISH their ex would come back and can't move on, so wondering if their wish actually came true and did they regret it or move on.

[Sixgunsound]

If it's over it ended for a reason that one or both felt strongly enough about, why cry or wish when the reason was strong enough to end it in the first place?

[ManOnFire]

I preach the same thing.

[NathanDavis]

nope, never tried anything like that

we both moved on mutual agreement and after giving it a thorough thought through all of it

[LavLavLuv]

ya they did, bye af