How do I deal with someone not wanting anything to do with me?

how do I deal with someone not wanting anything to do with you?

I know it a dumb questions

But I keep wanting to care about someone a girl or I bother her. sometime it other girls. I want care about my ex or someone or something.

Is caring weakness?

So I just want to see if my ex was ok and ask if we could go back to being friends On FB.

what wrong with that?

So I lie to her and we broke up cause she want me do thing I do not want do and I want help her bit not in they way she want.

She seem to be going threw the same thing as me with mental health and try say out jail. trying not have emotional outburst.

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she want me be respect full of her wishes and not interfere with anything. she seem to be manipulative.
How do I deal with someone not wanting anything to do with me?
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